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 Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2012 2:58 am
You might feel like you can't express yourself publically. And you might feel it sucks. The reality is, you can literally do whatever the ******** you want so long as you do not violate the law. So the next time you feel like you can't hold your SO's hand in public, just think, ******** it, I am going to do what I want and ******** everyone who is stupid enough to think its wrong.
However, it DOES suck that it's about 10 times harder for us to find relationships. There are significantly less gay people that exist, and they are also invisible. You can't tell by looking at someone if they are gay.
I propose we all just wear giant ******** signs that say "I'M GAY" to make it easier on all of us. wink
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Posted: Mon Dec 31, 2012 2:16 am
I'm 21 and I still feel the same way I have since I was a young age. I hate being gay in this country, I wish I lived somewhere else but I can't move. I thought the feeling would go away and I would be able to be comfortable but I'm not.
Usually I forget about the "worries" of being gay until I see some heterosexual couple holding hands in public, hugging in public, kissing in public. It pisses me the ******** off. If I was to do that with another guy, I wouldn't have to worry about only people saying bad things about us, but people being physically violent towards us.
I've grown up with an odd, misplaced hate for heterosexuals. It sucks. It's ruined friendships.
Sorry, I'm venting.
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Posted: Sat Apr 20, 2013 8:03 pm
its definatley hard for me to accsept the fact that i am bi because im afraid of other peoples opinions ... heh so its been 3 years since ive found out and still havent been able to tell my parents so ... heheh um ya ...
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Posted: Sun Apr 21, 2013 5:53 am
I've been hardened by my years in the military to say "Nothing really bothers me."
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Posted: Sun Apr 21, 2013 6:46 am
UGH!! Don't EVEN get me started. Telling my "best friend" about my new boyfriend, caused him to gag. That's right, gag, right in front of me, as if he'd been sick and he was about to puke up his lunch. Not to mention this friend was the first guy I told I had a crush on (At the time I thought I was bi.) Eventually, he began to avoid me and I now hate him for it. What makes it worse is I live in a neighborhood where people drink, smoke pot, and fight for the ******** of it, so you can imagine where I'm going with this:
1. I lost the majority of my friends.
2. I lost someone I used to care about a lot.
3. I can't even hold my boyfriend's head or give him a kiss in public without checking around me every two seconds.
Now, I'm not going to complain, I love my boyfriend more than anything, and the time I've spent with him is 100x more precious than the time I spent with the a*****e who stabbed me in the back, and I'm glad I have him, but it doesn't stop me from wondering what my life would've been like if I were straight.
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Posted: Sun Apr 28, 2013 6:20 pm
I live in a pretty accepting area when it comes to the fact I'm gay (and haven't yet found a boyfriend so I haven't had to deal with homophobic people). but I occasionally cross-dress and that sadly isn't accepted in my area so I kinda know your pain. being a cross-dresser, I'm afraid to wear a skirt in public. even my own mom isn't okay with the fact I'm a cross-dresser, but she is okay with the fact I'm gay. so in a way i know what your pain. I wish I could just be my self withought being judged
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Posted: Mon Apr 29, 2013 7:40 am
Timid Mishu UGH!! Don't EVEN get me started. Telling my "best friend" about my new boyfriend, caused him to gag. That's right, gag, right in front of me, as if he'd been sick and he was about to puke up his lunch. Not to mention this friend was the first guy I told I had a crush on (At the time I thought I was bi.) Eventually, he began to avoid me and I now hate him for it. What makes it worse is I live in a neighborhood where people drink, smoke pot, and fight for the ******** of it, so you can imagine where I'm going with this: 1. I lost the majority of my friends. 2. I lost someone I used to care about a lot. 3. I can't even hold my boyfriend's head or give him a kiss in public without checking around me every two seconds. Now, I'm not going to complain, I love my boyfriend more than anything, and the time I've spent with him is 100x more precious than the time I spent with the a*****e who stabbed me in the back, and I'm glad I have him, but it doesn't stop me from wondering what my life would've been like if I were straight. You sure you don't live near me? here's the same, only 10x worse. here most of the people are really really interested on how you live your life, even so they make facebook pages posting gossips and intimacies about other people's lifes. and don't you dare pick a fight with anyone, beacuse there's a 80% probability that you will get shot at the moment or later. sometimes I even wonder, is it worth fighting for? and I answer myself, yes. beacuse the moments i've had with my boyfriend are one in a lifetime. so just hang on, before things get better, they will get worst.
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Posted: Mon Apr 29, 2013 5:42 pm
Sin Error You sure you don't live near me? here's the same, only 10x worse. here most of the people are really really interested on how you live your life, even so they make facebook pages posting gossips and intimacies about other people's lifes. and don't you dare pick a fight with anyone, beacuse there's a 80% probability that you will get shot at the moment or later. sometimes I even wonder, is it worth fighting for? and I answer myself, yes. beacuse the moments i've had with my boyfriend are one in a lifetime. so just hang on, before things get better, they will get worst. I live in the, "City of Brotherly Love" Philly. Hell, we have a parks with more love (Love Park) than people.
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Posted: Mon Apr 29, 2013 6:39 pm
Sin Error Like really, I get so sick of the unfairness of not having the same right as heterosexuals. sometimes I just wanna grab my partner's hand or just hug him and I can't, beacuse there's people around. we always have to lurk in the shadows waiting for evryone to clear the area just so we can kiss. my boyfriend is a teacher at elementary school and he doesn't want his co workers or students to know he is gay, so he keeps a really low profile (in the closet low) and I'm so tired of this...lately i've told him but he doesn't undertsand, he just flips and I don't know what to do....i guess I'm just venting or w/e. Don't you guys sometimes think about the future for the LGBT people? I am not gay but I can see why you would get tired. It is a shame people always have to fear society and I may not be able to understand your situation, nor can I really do much about what is happening in the relationship. However, I can say this. I believe that if people keep hiding it like that, the more likely people will take it as something to be ashamed about, which is not at all true. It is who they are as an individual and there is no need to be ashamed of that. He forgets that the work place has rights too, and while some places won't be as friendly to homosexuals as others, they still can't fire him or question his teaching ability on sexual orientation because that is workplace discrimination and illegal. If they do, he can report them or form a lawsuit.
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