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Well... I think that people shouldn't. Cause the vows are to Death do us part rgiht?

And God means it to be one man and one woman, not many of each.

Wedding vows say "until death do you part" So I'm guessing it's alright.
I know that I wouldn't have the heart to do it though.

I believe that if you choose to marry a person it is for life.
If they mess up then I expect that you would be mature enough to work it out, go to counseling, talk to your pastor, and make an effort to fix the issues that you may have.
I am not a fan of divorce at all, it serves no good.
It causes heartbreak and so many problems, it also really takes a toll on the children that may be involved.
Heartbreak and chaos isn't of God.
If you are mature enough to marry then you should be mature enough to fix problems and issues instead of running from it.

This is a good resource about what God really thinks about divorce. It's a long but good read.

I think divorce is always acceptable in cases of abuse, either of one's spouse or one's children.

Aside from that, it's really on a case-by-case basis. I will never look down on anyone for getting divorced, because their relationship and their choice to end it is frankly none of my business.

My partner was married and divorced before I knew him. I don't think he was wrong to get divorced to much as I think he was stupid to get married to his ex-wife in the first place. But he was young, he didn't really know who he was yet, and his desire to lead what he believed to be a "normal, respectable" life got the better of him. He realised too late that while he loved and respected his wife, he didn't love her the way a husband should love his wife, the way she deserved to be loved by her husband. He just couldn't love her like that, as much as he wanted to. He was too honourable to be unfaithful to her, but he was also too honourable to keep up the charade of being the ideal husband. He came clean to her about his past and the truth about his sexual orientation. He hadn't even planned to leave her, not unless she wanted him to, but she'd insisted that it would be best for both of them if they went their separate ways, giving both of them a chance to find happiness with someone better-suited to give it to them. They remain good friends to this day and clearly care deeply for one another. They simply had to face the fact that for them, the love they had for one another simply wasn't the sort of love that created marital bliss, and that their decision to get married was one made in the haste and naiveté of youth.

So I can respect their decision to get divorced. It worked out for the best for all involved. But personally, I've only ever wanted to get married once. I wanted to be sure I did it right the first time. I was with my partner for eight years before we got married, which might seem excessive, but I wanted to be as sure as I could be that we were both playing for keeps. And if and when he dies before me (which is frankly likely given our age gap), I really don't see myself re-marrying. Plenty of people go their whole lives never finding the kind of love we have, and I feel plenty blessed to have found it once. I don't expect to find it again.