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 Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 7:17 pm
me and my guy had sex last night (we have lots before) and when he first got inside there was blinding pain when he hit me inside, so i moved and it kept hurting so he pulled out and everything was great until about five minutes later i felt shakey and sick. then i noticed i had bled on both of us but i wasn't anymore. then i moved and the blinding pain was back in my side and i got pale.
This morning i felt icky and was discharging orangy liquid a little.. but i had to go to school anyways and around third period i felt nasous, dizzy, headache and dull ache in the pelvic region. it's been 8 hrs at least and i still feel sick.
could it just be the flu, or should i go to the docter( i can only go if it's an emergency..my parents can't afford it sad
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 9:04 pm
The flu is not related to sex or your private parts.
Go to a doctor, this is an emergency. It sounds VERY serious and it's been 8 hours and you've had no relief, PLEASE go ASAP!
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 9:25 pm
my mom said that if i'm still sick tomorrow then we'll go to the doctor....does the doctor tell your parents everything you say if you're under 18? (i'm 17 and i want confidentiality..)
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 10:24 pm
Please go tomorrow, regardless if you're feeling just a "little" better.
There is a thing called doctor-patient priveledge. They can not tell your parents what you have said, but they also can not lie for you. I'm not sure if your mother will be going with you, but my mother was always with me when I went and asking her to leave the room, it's going to bring up questions, and I would advise talking with your mother about these things.
Just be sure to talk with the doctor about doctor-patient priveledge to alleviate any of your concerns. I would advise being honest so they can give you the best treatment, good luck!
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 6:46 am
I'll agree with luna on this one. You might want to talk to your mother before talking to a doctor. Your mother might have some more knowledge and maybe has experienced something along the same lines as you.
If she doesn't help at all, you then should report to a doctor. Just have your mother leave the room when you want to ask your question, if she remains, go for it anyways. It is better to be safe than sorry.
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 11:29 am
The age of doctor-patient confidentiality is 17 where I am, but it might be different in the States.
I agree with the others. You can try talking to your mom about what's wrong with you, and at the same time you could tell her you're sexually active. If you have to go see a doctor because something is seriously wrong, it might be best that she know too.
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 11:34 am
If I had to guess, I would say it sounds like a cyst. That requires IMMEDIATE attention. And really, any great pain or non-menstrual bleeding should make you worried.
What's scarier for you? Your mother finding out that you have sex? Or the possibility of dying/spending a very long time in the hospital because of a problem left untreated?
If you are worried about her reaction in public, you can talk to her first. But your priority should really be getting to a doctor as soon as possible. As someone else mentioned, you can tell your doctor that you are worried about your body, but you are also worried about the social dynamics in your household. That you would rather he/she just treat you and not go blabbing.
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 1:01 pm
Kukushka If I had to guess, I would say it sounds like a cyst. That requires IMMEDIATE attention. And really, any great pain or non-menstrual bleeding should make you worried. What's scarier for you? Your mother finding out that you have sex? Or the possibility of dying/spending a very long time in the hospital because of a problem left untreated? If you are worried about her reaction in public, you can talk to her first. But your priority should really be getting to a doctor as soon as possible. As someone else mentioned, you can tell your doctor that you are worried about your body, but you are also worried about the social dynamics in your household. That you would rather he/she just treat you and not go blabbing. i'm going at 3:30 today. they said my mom has to be present. i can't tell my mom or i'll be kicked out sweatdrop i'm in a very strick family where joking isn't allowed...i told my mom a different story and she seems to buy it, i'm worried about what i'll say if the doctor asks xp right now i'm just dizzy and i have "side aches" on both sides and i'm numb in the pelvic region. i hope i get through today xd
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 7:26 pm
takerulover Kukushka If I had to guess, I would say it sounds like a cyst. That requires IMMEDIATE attention. And really, any great pain or non-menstrual bleeding should make you worried. What's scarier for you? Your mother finding out that you have sex? Or the possibility of dying/spending a very long time in the hospital because of a problem left untreated? If you are worried about her reaction in public, you can talk to her first. But your priority should really be getting to a doctor as soon as possible. As someone else mentioned, you can tell your doctor that you are worried about your body, but you are also worried about the social dynamics in your household. That you would rather he/she just treat you and not go blabbing. i'm going at 3:30 today. they said my mom has to be present. i can't tell my mom or i'll be kicked out sweatdrop i'm in a very strick family where joking isn't allowed...i told my mom a different story and she seems to buy it, i'm worried about what i'll say if the doctor asks xp right now i'm just dizzy and i have "side aches" on both sides and i'm numb in the pelvic region. i hope i get through today xd Lying and getting caught later on is a stupid move on your part, to be blunt. Would you rather tell her the truth and deal with it now, or have her find out later on that you lied to her, and then get in deeper s**t for lying? If you were going to get kicked out for being sexually active, then I guess that would've been something to consider before going and sleeping with someone. Perhaps once she knows, you can talk her out of doing anything rash. If she does intend to kick you out, make sure you have somewhere to go before you tell her.
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 7:49 pm
While I think you need to tell you mother (if you're not mature enough to tell your parents, you shouldn't be having sex, kids, and if they don't want you to while you live with them, well, there'll be college), the most important thing is to tell your doctor. Go to a clinic if you have to, but this is huge and serious and could be deadly.
Go! Go! Do not stop.
(You didn't forget to remove a tampon, did you?)
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 12:38 am
I would not lie about something that serious sounding.
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 12:47 pm
Bondagesecks I would not lie about something that serious sounding. I was referring to you "telling your mother a different story" than what really happened, and coming clean about the doctor's visit.
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 4:53 pm
Nikolita I agree with the others. You can try talking to your mom about what's wrong with you, and at the same time you could tell her you're sexually active. If you have to go see a doctor because something is seriously wrong, it might be best that she know too.
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