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 Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 1:13 am
I guess an introduction is in order, I'm not very good at introducing myself. I'm Linda, or Cinna. I'm almost 19, born, raised and living in Canada. I have a boyfriend and I'm sadly unemployed at he moment.... mostly due to the fact that I had been depressed for a full year.
Picture of me xD:
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Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 1:14 am
August 21, 2012
I guess I should start off this journal, and write about all the stuff that's been going on, with a lot of ranting xD. My boyfriend is planning on moving into my families house. Surprisingly my mother was fine with him asking and is fine with him moving in. I think she's more concerned about next year. He's not from Canada so... xD he'll need to go back to his home at some point.)
We ended up celebrating our 100th day of being together two weekends ago, and my present for him ended up coming late (his present was sooo cute though! whee ), so I gave it to him this past Saturday night.
He slept over and when he was leaving I reminded him to bring his gift. I find it on my coffee table last night (since it's 4 AM right now)...
Then when I brought it up during a chat online, he starts blaming me, because he forgot it.... o_o He ended up apologizing, but it really didn't make me feel better.
^_^ So I told him I liked his gift and now I'm going to run around with it. Luckily I'm going with him on a boat ride on Friday with my family, which is also the day he's talking to my mother about how much money she wants from him if he moves in. Then I'm going to see part of my family on Saturday (Two aunts, and uncle and 4 cousins biggrin )
Meanwhile therapy is... bleh. Every two weeks, :/ my therapist says I should go get a job but it's nearly impossible because I don't drive and I haven't been to college. XD I would go, problem being niether I or my family have the money for it and I still don't know what I want to do with my life.
My dads being his usual self. Last weekend I didn't go to this house because he made me upset. He took a full week off of not seeing me or my sibling, his own kids, because he wants to spend time with his girlfriend and her own kids. :/ He only see's us Tuesday, Wednesday nights and some weekends, couldn't he have planned it better??? -_- What's worse is that he posted the pictures up on facebook.
So if it wasn't enough that he's happy enough without us. This is my classic dad though, takes his girlfriends and her kids on vacations and leaves his actual kids at home with a mother who suffers financially.
-__- This isn't the first, it's just gotten to the point where I don't think of my dad as anything...
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Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 1:00 pm
Here, have a emotion_hug
You can have more if you need 'em.
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Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 1:17 pm
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Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 1:20 pm
I'm 25 and I still have no idea what I want to do with my life, career wise that is. Its a very unfulfilled feeling.
I do know that I was happier when I did work because I felt a sense of worth to myself. I look forward to working again, even if it will be a part time position.
Are there any hobbies that you enjoy doing?
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Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 6:47 pm
Digital Fiend I'm 25 and I still have no idea what I want to do with my life, career wise that is. Its a very unfulfilled feeling.
I do know that I was happier when I did work because I felt a sense of worth to myself. I look forward to working again, even if it will be a part time position.
Are there any hobbies that you enjoy doing?
cry It is! Right now I'm just trying to find something to do. Hobbies... not a lot of things. I like playing video games and singing. sweatdrop I'm starting to find a job, I just need to put myself out there more I guess. I need to find something soon though, I've spent quite a while bumming around the house.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2012 10:06 pm
August 27th:
Got a lot on my mind for a bit, but I did have a pretty good weekend. biggrin Friday I went on a little boat trip with my family and boyfriend. Other than the wasps, which freaking scare me and my sister who yelled at me for getting freaked out over the wasps, it was a really awesome trip. At the end, I end up bringing my boyfriend over for dinner. After dinner we started talking about him moving into my families house. ^_^ The date has been set, and he's moving in on October 4th, I'm pretty excited.
That all said, he'll be sleeping on a couch in our cold basement. X_X which makes me a little uncomfortable. The basement is also where all the video games and big tv and stuff is so it's going to cause problems for my sister and brother if they want it.My mother ended up asking me if I wanted to give him my room, and I move into her room... not going to work.... She also says I can have him up in my room with the door closed if he hangs out in the basement.
I go to some family event on Saturday night and my mother practically tells half my family that my boyfriends moving in... so now my family knows. One of my aunts went for a smoke and my mom and I stepped out with her. She started debating with my mother about how I'm almost 19 and I'm not allowed to share a room with him. My boyfriend and I would probably be comfortable sleeping together, and it would solve problems... but basically my mother told her no because she's worried we're going to fool around.
Her argument makes no sense though, if I want to do that stuff with him I can. She never checks up on us in the basement, she's left us alone in the house together a few times for hours. neutral The time of day isn't really going to change anything.
Either way, I've got a busy week ahead of me, and this post has gotten long enough. sweatdrop All for now! heart
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Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 9:17 am
Sometimes it can be weird and awkward for a parent to get over the fact of their child being sexually active. I wonder if they think that nookie can only happen in the middle of the night and in a bed though.
I mean, just give it some time. Things have a way of progressing. I hope everything goes well!
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Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 10:29 am
Digital Fiend Sometimes it can be weird and awkward for a parent to get over the fact of their child being sexually active. I wonder if they think that nookie can only happen in the middle of the night and in a bed though.
I mean, just give it some time. Things have a way of progressing. I hope everything goes well! That's her logic, and I'm not sure if she doesn't know I'm sexually active or she's trying to be oblivious, and she thinks it's only going to happen in the middle of the night. Thinking another way though, it's nice that she's actually letting him live here. I don't know a lot of parents that would do it, and I know she's worried.
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Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 6:45 pm
Umm... why exactly is your boyfriend moving into your house? Because unless you're living together as a couple, I can't understand the reason.
Also, I think parents in general don't like the idea of their children being old enough to have sex. Since it's their house, you'll have to live by their rules.
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Posted: Tue Aug 28, 2012 6:34 pm
Cinna Feather I'll try to explain this as best as I can. First off, my boyfriend isn't Canadian, he's from Korea and he came here to learn English. He ended up in an area that has lots of Korean people. So part of it is to be in a place, with a family that speaks English. He's also a good hour away taking a bus, and with his work I only see him once a week at the very most. It's already hard enough also to see each other, so he tried finding a place around where I live and couldn't. My mother offered at one point to have him live in my house. About a month after that he asked if he could live in my house. It's pretty much the only two reasons he's ending up in my house. Don't get me wrong, I understand my mother and her fear of me having sex, but what I don't get is why she thinks it's only going to happen during the middle of the night. I'm not going to fight this, I'm a person which yes, I admit it, I get upset over stupid things like this and rant, I'm quite selfish sometimes and I still have a hard time understanding this. It's going to play out that I'm going to keep my mouth shut, do what she says and do all the work myself. I'm either going to have to stay in her room, which is going to be filled with my boxes if I move out of my room, or I'm going to have to have to talk to my sister and brother, convince them this is a good idea and try to find a solution to who gets the basement what time of the day, and whats going to happen if my siblings decide to have friends sleeping over. OHHHH. I didn't know (or hadn't seen?) that he's an exchange student. I'm not judging, hon, I'm just saying. God knows I'd love to move out of my parents' house, like, yesterday.
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