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 Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2012 9:52 pm
Note, Avatar aside, I am a man
I recently came out to a bunch of friends as Pansexual. I have known it for a long while but just came out recently. Anyway, with the stress of hiding and not accepting this fully I have recently began to let myself enjoy my own sexuality and body...
Long story short, I am fairly bored of typical solo means for a Man...is there any ideas for something new? I don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend to have sex at all with, nor have I had any luck in the relationship department.
Any ideas? Any precautions?
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Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 11:17 pm
All I can think of to suggest would be trying a local adult store, or ordering something off the internet. There's the Fleshlight, for example, but they're kinda expensive if you're on a budget.
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Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 11:23 pm
Nikolita All I can think of to suggest would be trying a local adult store, or ordering something off the internet. There's the Fleshlight, for example, but they're kinda expensive if you're on a budget. I am actually going to an adult store on Tuesday...I am a tad giddy xD
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Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 11:29 pm
Sauvie Nikolita All I can think of to suggest would be trying a local adult store, or ordering something off the internet. There's the Fleshlight, for example, but they're kinda expensive if you're on a budget. I am actually going to an adult store on Tuesday...I am a tad giddy xD They're a lot of fun. biggrin I've applied to work in one before, but didn't get it. There's a local one I've asked about, but they're never hiring. Anyways! Look around, ask lots of questions, and just enjoy yourself. 4laugh
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Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 11:49 pm
Nikolita Sauvie Nikolita All I can think of to suggest would be trying a local adult store, or ordering something off the internet. There's the Fleshlight, for example, but they're kinda expensive if you're on a budget. I am actually going to an adult store on Tuesday...I am a tad giddy xD They're a lot of fun. biggrin I've applied to work in one before, but didn't get it. There's a local one I've asked about, but they're never hiring. Anyways! Look around, ask lots of questions, and just enjoy yourself. 4laugh I plan on it, I plan on it =D This is going to be my first time going to one...I sadly lack the funding to buy the store as it feels I want everything xD
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 11:08 am
Adult stores always have so much fun stuff to look at, don't they? whee
I would say buy one, maybe two toys, and eventually buy more as you like. My boyfriend has a flesh light that he used a lot, though since he's gotten together with me he doesn't use it so much anymore, lol. But he highly recommends it. Have fun!
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 12:36 pm
Riku is my Twin Adult stores always have so much fun stuff to look at, don't they? whee I would say buy one, maybe two toys, and eventually buy more as you like. My boyfriend has a flesh light that he used a lot, though since he's gotten together with me he doesn't use it so much anymore, lol. But he highly recommends it. Have fun! That is a little out of my price range sadly. I plan on getting something for a**l play actually...though again, I wish I could get more stuff than I can afford right now. very excited to try as many new things as possible.
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 7:22 pm
Good for you for coming out, accepting who you are, and exploring yourself!
I'd recommend reading reviews for toys online before you buy them. Some toys can be pricey, and you can't exactly take them back once you've tried them and found you don't like them! Not everyone agrees of course, so you have to take reviews with a grain of salt. But sometimes they can tell you important information that isn't printed on the package too.
Also, make sure you clean your toys properly and use the proper lube with them. Improper washing or certain kinds of lube can ruin certain toys.
Other than that, good luck, have fun, and don't sell yourself short! I know you haven't had much romantic luck, but you seem like a great guy, and I am sure you will find a great partner eventually!
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 8:11 pm
LorienLlewellyn Good for you for coming out, accepting who you are, and exploring yourself! I'd recommend reading reviews for toys online before you buy them. Some toys can be pricey, and you can't exactly take them back once you've tried them and found you don't like them! Not everyone agrees of course, so you have to take reviews with a grain of salt. But sometimes they can tell you important information that isn't printed on the package too. Also, make sure you clean your toys properly and use the proper lube with them. Improper washing or certain kinds of lube can ruin certain toys. Other than that, good luck, have fun, and don't sell yourself short! I know you haven't had much romantic luck, but you seem like a great guy, and I am sure you will find a great partner eventually! Thank you Lorien, it was very tough, but I already feel as if the decision to accept it and be open about it has had a massive upside, not even 7 days later. I have been reading some reviews and the like, I don't plan on breaking my wallet on my first purchase as much as I kind of wish I could in terms of buying some variety. However, yes, I am going to a place here in Toronto that has a ton of good reviews in itself. I can ask a ton of questions and the staff is reportedly very well informed and able to help. And worry not, I am a super Neat freak, I think I have that aspect down. Thanks a ton again, It is true that I haven't had the best luck, but being true about who I am just opens up more possibilities not to mention I am more comfortable as well. So Perhaps something could be coming in that sense for me. perhaps not, or perhaps so. either way, I feel like...an earth lighter since last week.
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:22 pm
Sauvie Nikolita Sauvie Nikolita All I can think of to suggest would be trying a local adult store, or ordering something off the internet. There's the Fleshlight, for example, but they're kinda expensive if you're on a budget. I am actually going to an adult store on Tuesday...I am a tad giddy xD They're a lot of fun. biggrin I've applied to work in one before, but didn't get it. There's a local one I've asked about, but they're never hiring. Anyways! Look around, ask lots of questions, and just enjoy yourself. 4laugh I plan on it, I plan on it =D This is going to be my first time going to one...I sadly lack the funding to buy the store as it feels I want everything xD If you see something you like in a store, do some research online and see what you can find out about it (how to use and clean it, customer reviews, etc) before buying it. That would hopefully save you some money until you found something that you felt would be a good fit for you. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:38 pm
Nikolita Sauvie Nikolita Sauvie Nikolita All I can think of to suggest would be trying a local adult store, or ordering something off the internet. There's the Fleshlight, for example, but they're kinda expensive if you're on a budget. I am actually going to an adult store on Tuesday...I am a tad giddy xD They're a lot of fun. biggrin I've applied to work in one before, but didn't get it. There's a local one I've asked about, but they're never hiring. Anyways! Look around, ask lots of questions, and just enjoy yourself. 4laugh I plan on it, I plan on it =D This is going to be my first time going to one...I sadly lack the funding to buy the store as it feels I want everything xD If you see something you like in a store, do some research online and see what you can find out about it (how to use and clean it, customer reviews, etc) before buying it. That would hopefully save you some money until you found something that you felt would be a good fit for you. 3nodding I have done a bit of research already before going (Super pumped as it is in like...9 hours X3) Plus, I have an apparently excellent staff to bounce questions off of. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2012 11:55 am
Awesome! mrgreen If it's not too personal, can you update us after you get back? I'd love to know what you thought of the adult store. smile
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Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2012 12:21 pm
Nikolita Awesome! mrgreen If it's not too personal, can you update us after you get back? I'd love to know what you thought of the adult store. smile Not too personal at all. The staff was fantastic, the two women who were there were very helpful, they saw I was a bit nervous and they were great about not being pushy or anything. They were cracking jokes with me, being nice and the like. It was a very pleasant experience.
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Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2012 10:47 pm
Sauvie Nikolita Awesome! mrgreen If it's not too personal, can you update us after you get back? I'd love to know what you thought of the adult store. smile Not too personal at all. The staff was fantastic, the two women who were there were very helpful, they saw I was a bit nervous and they were great about not being pushy or anything. They were cracking jokes with me, being nice and the like. It was a very pleasant experience. Exactly how it should be. I'm so happy to hear it. biggrin
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 9:04 am
Nikolita Sauvie Nikolita Awesome! mrgreen If it's not too personal, can you update us after you get back? I'd love to know what you thought of the adult store. smile Not too personal at all. The staff was fantastic, the two women who were there were very helpful, they saw I was a bit nervous and they were great about not being pushy or anything. They were cracking jokes with me, being nice and the like. It was a very pleasant experience. Exactly how it should be. I'm so happy to hear it. biggrin Thinking of going back much quicker than I expected. their suggestion for a newbie in the department has had less than impressive results xD
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