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PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:07 pm


Okay, so I joined this roleplay today and... well... I want out. I applied for it, I was accepted, and I realized too freakin' late that it was suckish. Now, there's only like 3 other people in it so far. And me being me, I hate making others feel bad. I almost never say no to people because I'm kind like that.

Anyway you guys can help me get out of this?
PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:13 pm


I think you should play it out for a bit and see if there could be any improvement. If not, apologize about having to suddenly drop out and take your leave.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:14 pm


Noted Musician
Okay, so I joined this roleplay today and... well... I want out. I applied for it, I was accepted, and I realized too freakin' late that it was suckish. Now, there's only like 3 other people in it so far. And me being me, I hate making others feel bad. I almost never say no to people because I'm kind like that.

Anyway you guys can help me get out of this?


Is there a way to inform them that you just can't attend the roleplay for the day? That your busy or something? Is this on the fly where they require an answer now?

I understand, I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to say no. I do whatever I can to help others out. But when I know I'm overwhelmed in work and or daily activities/chores I tell them no. Can't do it. Usually if you have an explanation as to why you cannot complete a task people are okay with it.
PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:14 pm


Jin the Shadow Wolf
I think you should play it out for a bit and see if there could be any improvement. If not, apologize about having to suddenly drop out and take your leave.

Well, how do I drop out? Do I just say 'Hey I'm not interested anymore' ?

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:19 pm


Jzen White
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Okay, so I joined this roleplay today and... well... I want out. I applied for it, I was accepted, and I realized too freakin' late that it was suckish. Now, there's only like 3 other people in it so far. And me being me, I hate making others feel bad. I almost never say no to people because I'm kind like that.

Anyway you guys can help me get out of this?


Is there a way to inform them that you just can't attend the roleplay for the day? That your busy or something? Is this on the fly where they require an answer now?

I understand, I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to say no. I do whatever I can to help others out. But when I know I'm overwhelmed in work and or daily activities/chores I tell them no. Can't do it. Usually if you have an explanation as to why you cannot complete a task people are okay with it.


In all honesty, no it's not that I have stuff to do. I just really don't like the roleplay. and I want out.
PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:20 pm


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Jzen White
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Okay, so I joined this roleplay today and... well... I want out. I applied for it, I was accepted, and I realized too freakin' late that it was suckish. Now, there's only like 3 other people in it so far. And me being me, I hate making others feel bad. I almost never say no to people because I'm kind like that.

Anyway you guys can help me get out of this?


Is there a way to inform them that you just can't attend the roleplay for the day? That your busy or something? Is this on the fly where they require an answer now?

I understand, I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to say no. I do whatever I can to help others out. But when I know I'm overwhelmed in work and or daily activities/chores I tell them no. Can't do it. Usually if you have an explanation as to why you cannot complete a task people are okay with it.


In all honesty, no it's not that I have stuff to do. I just really don't like the roleplay. and I want out.


sweatdrop Oh! Then I would go with the advice that Jin the Shadow Wolf wrote. Seems like sound advice. 3nodding


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:21 pm


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Jin the Shadow Wolf
I think you should play it out for a bit and see if there could be any improvement. If not, apologize about having to suddenly drop out and take your leave.

Well, how do I drop out? Do I just say 'Hey I'm not interested anymore' ?

I guess so. I have no idea how to phrase it so that I don't sound mean or anything. I think the last time that happened to me, I just said I wasn't into that particular RP anymore and left.
PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:21 pm


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Just be like, "Hey, guys! I'm really sorry, but I am in a predicament in which I find myself bound to another role playing guild at the moment and realized that I don't currently have the time to post here. I am so sorry for having to leave so suddenly, but should I ever change my mind, you guys will be the first guild that I go to."

And you can tell them that if they have any issues with this, they can speak to me about it.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:22 pm


Jin the Shadow Wolf
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I think you should play it out for a bit and see if there could be any improvement. If not, apologize about having to suddenly drop out and take your leave.

Well, how do I drop out? Do I just say 'Hey I'm not interested anymore' ?

I guess so. I have no idea how to phrase it so that I don't sound mean or anything. I think the last time that happened to me, I just said I wasn't into that particular RP anymore and left.

I just feel really mean and snooty being all like, I don't wanna rp with you guys anymore. Dx
PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:24 pm


SammehTron
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Just be like, "Hey, guys! I'm really sorry, but I am in a predicament in which I find myself bound to another role playing guild at the moment and realized that I don't currently have the time to post here. I am so sorry for having to leave so suddenly, but should I ever change my mind, you guys will be the first guild that I go to."

And you can tell them that if they have any issues with this, they can speak to me about it.

Thank you! That's like, perfect ;3 Well, I think Imma start with what shadow wolf said. I'll give it a few days. If it gets better, then I'll stick with it for a while. But if it ever gets boring, then I'll follow your advice. Thank you so much :3

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:27 pm


And if they ever give you a hard time then I'll give them a good mod smack xd
PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:32 pm


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You are very welcome, and remember, if you need my help and they don't like that you are leaving (I doubt they'll give you trouble, but I'm just letting you know), you can send them to me, and I'll kindly reiterate your interests for them.

And if they are downright nasty to you or harass you about it, let Chris know. He is a moderating genius and will help you out if you need it.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:33 pm


SammehTron
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You are very welcome, and remember, if you need my help and they don't like that you are leaving (I doubt they'll give you trouble, but I'm just letting you know), you can send them to me, and I'll kindly reiterate your interests for them.

And if they are downright nasty to you or harass you about it, let Chris know. He is a moderating genius and will help you out if you need it.

Ohmygosh, thank you. c:
PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:34 pm


*bow*

You are so welcome.

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