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 Posted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 7:36 am
Kumi Haruki Is it acceptable for a first gehaka to still help out in his mother's store, even after marriage? And what exactly IS the policy on marriage and such? Haruki is having some... issues there. @_@ It depends on who he married. Alot of Haka will take on the first few husbands for pleasure, they'll be handsome, talented at what they do, something they'd want to show off. But after the first three husbands or so, they only marry Gehaka because they need workers for whatever it is they do- or out of pity at times. Alot of Gehaka do have 'time off' within a day, usually its schedualed by the first husband, so if the Gehaka asked if he could work in his mothers store in the mornings or evenings, it depends likely on what his initial job is, and who his mate is and all that. A first husband probably not, because he's expected to stay home and help 'keep the fort' and all that.
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Posted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 7:42 am
n0cturne I've gots a question and whatnot. XD For the background of my Gehaka.
Say that my Gehaka's mother had a need for all his possessions to be of the finest nature and for his mates to be fine and -gasp- at least slightly educated? Would it be possible for my Gehaka's father, having had some minor schooling at his mate's expense, to teach it to his Gekaka son?
Also, would it be unusual for a Haka to more or less not favor his child, if it was a Gehaka?
I think that's it for the moment. O_o Well, a Haka normally wouldn't edcuate his Gehaka unless he needed them to know something- beyond the basics of manners and culture, which a Haka is supposed to teach all his children in the first place. Its fine for Gehaka to be 'educated' just try and keep in mind that most Haka are paranoid about this, and they dont view learned Gehaka as any fancier than a normal one, persay. It wont really 'impress' a Haka to have an educated Gehaka, it would be more impressive if they were expert swordsmen or something. As for a Haka favoring his Gehaka son, no it wouldn't be persay uncommon- they would probably treat them kindly, at least when alone. Again, haka aren't -always- mean to their Gehaka, they want tender snuggles too! this side of them is usually confined to their bedroom, thats all.
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Posted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 12:41 pm
Yey, question!
If a Gehaka is married, are they inclined to do whatever another Haka tells them to do (like serve them in carrying bags, get tea, etc) if their own husband is not present? And are they supposed to be as polite to other Haka and as submissive as they might have been as an unmarried Gehaka?
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Posted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 12:42 pm
Would it be kind of strange if two haka married or is it even allowed? just wondering.
EDIT: I was also wondeirng if it were allowed for a haka to marry a relative gehaka of his...
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Posted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 3:12 pm
NinetailedNightmare Yey, question! If a Gehaka is married, are they inclined to do whatever another Haka tells them to do (like serve them in carrying bags, get tea, etc) if their own husband is not present? And are they supposed to be as polite to other Haka and as submissive as they might have been as an unmarried Gehaka? Alot of it depends on class. Normally Gehaka would do a few things- help out, but they wouldn't dote on another haka nearly as much as they would their own mate (it would probably piss their mate off, because their haka wants to be treated as the 'most special' one and all X3) All Gehaka should be polite and a bit subserviant to Haka, no matter what the class. However, a very low class Gehaka with a very low class Mate, probably should be more inclined to be very helpful if called upon by a very high class Haka. However, a very high class Gehaka can sometimes (RARELY) even outrank a Haka, and not have to give them help at all, and can even be fridgid. While its not socially looked well upon it depends on what the Gehaka's mate will let them get away with. The case of a Gehaka outranking one of the lowest ranking Haka would be say, the first husband of a council member. I hope this helps.
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Posted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 3:16 pm
Bankotsu_girl Would it be kind of strange if two haka married or is it even allowed? just wondering. EDIT: I was also wondeirng if it were allowed for a haka to marry a relative gehaka of his... Marriage between two haka isn't 'allowed' persay. As in, there just... isn't one. It wouldn't be horribly uncommon for Haka to sleep with each other, sometimes they could even live together and essentially 'be married', but they just... arent married, legally and all that. Marriage is much more a Gehaka Haka thing, sort of... for a Haka to stake their claims on their Gehaka. Its not really a horribly big deal to Haka. Thats why Haka are not bound by law to obey any sort of laws when it comes to whom they sleep with or what they do with their husbands, really, the ONLY thing that marriage 'means' to Haka is that they're on their own, making their own way in the world, etc. And inside the home marriages can develop into more than that, depending on the couple and all. It is however very forbidden for a Haka to sleep with a married Gehaka to someone else, (as in, the Gehaka will probably be tortured or put to death, no real consequences are upon the Haka, other than gossip, which, to most Haka, would be like torture) - As for the marrying family Gehaka. Nothing closer than your first cousin- second cousin would be acceptable though, and farther out than that.
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Posted: Tue Mar 21, 2006 3:36 pm
>< Here's one for the frequently-asked-questions...
May I use my hanze in my signature map?
I'd like to use Zhou's image to link to here.
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Posted: Tue Mar 21, 2006 7:00 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 7:31 pm
How do you want the information for card changes? Like chosing a mate.
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Posted: Sun Apr 02, 2006 10:33 pm
Shadow_windstars How do you want the information for card changes? Like chosing a mate. Baby Gwing is our tagger, you can send her a note, and I do believe she knows how to get access to your tags.
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Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 5:58 pm
When it comes to throwing weddings (we wanna actualy rp the bash xD ) should one of the staff do the wedding, or can we make up a priest and rp him ourselves?
And can we throw it anywhere? Like the river? >.> They want a wedding where they first met xD
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Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 4:42 pm
When Haka get mad and want to get rid of someone, who do they hire? I know, assassins, but is there an actual family(or gehaka) profession for that? Or do they just go tell one of their gehaka to go off and kill whoever?
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Posted: Thu May 04, 2006 2:07 pm
What does the marriage ceremony detail?
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 6:39 am
ktqueen When it comes to throwing weddings (we wanna actualy rp the bash xD ) should one of the staff do the wedding, or can we make up a priest and rp him ourselves? And can we throw it anywhere? Like the river? >.> They want a wedding where they first met xD Well, a Hanze marriage usually is a gathering in a place, generally the home of the 'bride' (Haka) with the Gehaka's family and the Haka's family together for dinner and drinks, its much more casual than human marriages, because a Haka gets married several times. There is no priest or need for an official of any sort, and you can surely have the celebration wherever you want. The first marriage is usually the biggest bash of all, though still, not nearly as grand scale as our own weddings, unless it was a councilmans son or something, then it would be a big deal.
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 6:41 am
NinetailedNightmare When Haka get mad and want to get rid of someone, who do they hire? I know, assassins, but is there an actual family(or gehaka) profession for that? Or do they just go tell one of their gehaka to go off and kill whoever? Usually Haka will marry at least one swordsman or professional fighter. The quality of the fighter usually depends on their own social status- a very good fighter will know he's worth something, and probably will seek out only very important haka, to ensure that he has a good home and lifestyle. Normally Haka will only ask their own gehaka to assassinate someone, and only in rather dire circumstances, generally financial or perhaps social, though not too often for revenge or 'feelings'. Usually its got something to do with business. When a Haka 'gets mad' they -normally- would prefer to completely humiliate and ruin their enemy, as opposed to just killing them. Humiliation is far more satisfying to a Haka. If the Haka doesn't have a fighter gehaka, then they might ask their mother or perhaps a very very close friend (haka) to 'loan' them a fighter gehaka in order to use, though they would have to be very desperate to ask.
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