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 Posted: Fri May 25, 2012 1:34 am
Okay, the worst thing in the world just happened... This is just terrible. Turn back now if your squimish... Just do it. Leave now
Well, if you stayed... Your very freaking brave. My friends is over at this moment and we're about to cry.
Well, the whole situation started like this, it was about two days ago and we were talking to a senior. Two years older and man, this was a bad topic: Who do you like. Well, it seems simple and innocent but OH MY GOD! T^T It turned into something that I would expect from a damn rapist. So, he told my friend that he liked her and I was like "I KNEW IT!" well, big deal. What ever. But no! He just had to get perverted!
She/we were eating a cup of noodles, two other guys are around and another girl. She dropped a bit of soup down her bra and he was all like "Why don't you take your bra off and clean it?" But it was in a creepy freaking tone at that even if we thought that was bad-ish it got worse. -______-
We decided to go on skype, and what do we get? A freaking call from him and I was like "Oh just answer it... It'll be fine... Right?" Oh hell no, I was wrong. So three seconds in he was all like "Oh, I missed you already!" And all I was thinking was: FREAKING STALKER! D: See, now just answering the call was a bad idea...
So after that we began to play freaking truth or dare over the vid chat and he was all getting werid. Like werider than he was before. At (High) School he's all proper and nice but where the hell did that side of him go? Off to damn Mexico?! Probably!
So he asks us, We say dare and what does he say. Oh just to add this in now, we are pretty good actors, if we were being ourselves we wouldn't have answered in the first place. And Oh, I wish we didn't. So he dared us to kiss and I'm like "No! I'm not freaking lez/bi! No! No! No! Hell no!" So he switches it and it just about... 10x worse, daring "her" to take her top/bra off... Multiple freaking times and I'm like "OH HELL NOH!" And she's like freaking slient, not like "Yesh" slient but like "No" Slient. But no! It gets freaking worse! When she flipped him the bird/finger he said "Yesh Please." And I was like "Hell noh!" So I would rather not tell you the rest...
But it's freaking cray! He wants her like a mother! he's scaring us and who else should I ask? You guys do help me with more problems than you know.
WHAT DO WE/I DO! We go back in like 4 days! (We still have school, wwe go to a charter High School.) And I'm like noooo, I don't wanna go back and she's scared for her damn life! And he's just... Not to be rude or anything but he's big. Both ways. He's strong yet a bowling ball. I know this probably wasn't the thing to write here but oh heck, We/she/I Need help. Please. Help.
S.O.S!
Any advice? Should we get a restraining order!?
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2012 2:23 am
. . . really? I was expecting something truly terrible.
This isn't at all awful or terrible, just a bit creepy and embarrassing.
Granted the way you've typed is incredibly difficult to follow.
A number of things could have made it 'truly terrible' as you've put it.
Like him reaching down her shirt to get the noodles or putting the noodles there himself.
Or if he instead pulled out his genitalia on the video call, a video call you didn't have to answer in the first place if he was really scaring you.
As for stalking, just saying he misses you already isn't stalking. He isn't following you around, texting constantly, calling your HOME phone and parents' phones roughly 30-40 times an hour when you don't respond. He isn't following your friends, texting them creepy things. He isn't following your every post on Gaia and stalking around to find every site you're a part of.
A guy daring you to kiss is just a guy thing; 90% of guys I know would love to see one girl kiss another girl because they find it hot. It's common to get that question, not creepy or stalkerish.
Anyway.
The best thing to do would probably be just to TELL him he's creeping you out in an extreme way and that he needs to back off and/or stop talking to you both. If you're so terrified of him, make sure as many friends are with you two as possible, especially if you're friends with people his size and strength. If he persists, notify your teachers and let your parents know. If you honestly feel he's threatening your life and your safety, notify the police and tell them everything. Stay in public areas and always always always stay with friends; never allow yourself to be alone where he might even remotely possibly be able to corner either or both of you.
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2012 2:38 am
You could be over-reacting. He might be flirting with you in a socially inept way. I might have done somewhat of the same in high school if females would actually have talked to me. But not because I was a creepy stalker or anything, but because I didn't know what to say. If you want him to stop, just tell him that you don't appreciate what he's telling you and that you want him to stop. If he continues to do it regardless, THAT'S when you do something more drastic about it.
That's the problem . . . People want to talk to other people, but when they find out what goes on in their heads, they no longer want to be friends with the person who happens to be perverted or weird. Then, to top it all off, the person who's offended doesn't tell the other person but just completely ignores him/her.
Grow up and confront the guy.
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