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 Posted: Sat Feb 25, 2012 7:12 pm
We've been together for over a year and a half. My strongest, closest, more wonderful relationship. Recently, my boyfriend broke up with me. I've been heart broken. It seems like he got over me so quickly, while I'm still crying over it. He told me he still loved me. He still cared for me. Even more recently, that he thinks we're meant to be together, but he's unsure. I could write a ten page essay on everything that's happened since then, good and bad.
Tonight is the first night we've talked about it, really. I was slowly getting through it, my own way. I wasn't the same, nowhere close. But I was moving on at my own pace. He told me that the reason he ended things is because he was growing feelings for someone else. "I'm scared to tell you this, but I have to." Is how he started it.
Now, as much as I feel like saying "He grew feelings for someone else, get over it." I just can't. After over a year and a half, I'd like to think he would just tell me. I'm not the kind of girl to dump someone over just anything- we would have tried to work it out.
I don't want to want him anymore. I want to be okay with it.I feel so betrayed. I feel sad. I feel things I didn't even know I could feel. I feel like I got boring. I feel like I'm not good enough for anyone. I feel like all the progress I've made was for nothing.
I said I'd go to my Uncle's cookout tomorrow. I don't have to go. I don't want to go anymore. I feel bad saying no, though, especially after I already said I would.
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2012 9:54 pm
Giraffes Herp Derp We've been together for over a year and a half. My strongest, closest, more wonderful relationship. Recently, my boyfriend broke up with me. I've been heart broken. It seems like he got over me so quickly, while I'm still crying over it. He told me he still loved me. He still cared for me. Even more recently, that he thinks we're meant to be together, but he's unsure. I could write a ten page essay on everything that's happened since then, good and bad.
Tonight is the first night we've talked about it, really. I was slowly getting through it, my own way. I wasn't the same, nowhere close. But I was moving on at my own pace. He told me that the reason he ended things is because he was growing feelings for someone else. "I'm scared to tell you this, but I have to." Is how he started it.
Now, as much as I feel like saying "He grew feelings for someone else, get over it." I just can't. After over a year and a half, I'd like to think he would just tell me. I'm not the kind of girl to dump someone over just anything- we would have tried to work it out.
I don't want to want him anymore. I want to be okay with it.I feel so betrayed. I feel sad. I feel things I didn't even know I could feel. I feel like I got boring. I feel like I'm not good enough for anyone. I feel like all the progress I've made was for nothing.
I said I'd go to my Uncle's cookout tomorrow. I don't have to go. I don't want to go anymore. I feel bad saying no, though, especially after I already said I would. I said this on the other post, and I'll say it again. The relationship is over. He broke up with you! He has had a lot of time to get over it. You don't just break up with someone on the spot, he wanted to get out and the second he knew it he started grieving. But you were dumped, you're starting the grieving later then he is. And all relationships hurt, the key is to accept that it wasn't 'the one' and move on. You sound very young, and it's you'll develop the thicker skin over time.
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2012 10:12 pm
Regardless of your feelings you have to move on. Meet new people, see new things, be happy for once! You should go to your uncle's cookout, it'll provide time to forget about the breakup and spend time with your family. You shouldn't dwell on it, it'll just eat you up from inside and make you insane. Take my advice, I know a ton of people who went through breakups and they were a total mess. Spend time doing things YOU love, and nothing that you and your now ex-boyfriend loved.
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 9:18 am
The best and fastest way to get over a broken heart is to sleep around. When I was a young cow, and had mated with my first bull, I was certain that we'd raise our calf together, but not 20 minutes after our coupling, I saw the farmer lead him to another cow and saw the whole thing. I was heart broken, but I discovered that every bull I mate with, I forget him and enjoy life a little more.
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