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 Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 4:52 pm
Since I was about 8 I've started to fear men (I'm 13.) Mainly teachers. I don't know why. Its become a problem for me. Any advice?
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Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 6:08 pm
The only advice I can give is to see a counsler. It sounds like anxiety. Do you know what triggered this?
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Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 7:55 pm
Professional help of some sort, like counselling, therapy, or seeing a psychologist would probably help.
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2006 12:52 am
Third time said, Thearpy will help.... I have the same problem, it is just something you have work out. Very want to talk about it you can pm me.
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2006 6:14 am
Yi Min The only advice I can give is to see a counsler. It sounds like anxiety. Do you know what triggered this? no I dont. I wish I did.
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Posted: Sat Mar 18, 2006 9:32 pm
uhm.... maybe you just need to meet a nice guy..... you just need a guy friend.... ohhhh im a guy, can i be your friend XD
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 11:29 am
As everyone has said, prefessional help. Therapy helped me a lot.
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 3:59 pm
I have the same problem, and I've gone to counceling. There is no real reason why, but it started happening to me when I was 12. I can't stand being in the same room with my own father now.
You might want to try hanging out with men a bit more. It might be because you're a little conscious about yourself. It will pass in time.
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 5:45 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 11:17 am
Just ask adults to help you out with this.
Try counseling.... and don't be afraid to ask for a new counselor if you don't like the one they put you with.
Don't put yourself in a position you don't feel comfortable in.
Time will tell if it is something very serious or just a stage you're going through....
my question is..... has anything happened to you? (((rape, sexual abuse, physical abuse, or anything else?)))
If so..... this could be a major part of your fear in men.
p.s.
If a teacher ever tries anything with you.... just report it and they will most likely be fired or have their teaching license taken away.
p.s.s. just get help honey... k?
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 6:05 pm
Yeah when I read you post I instantly think some kind of post traumatic stress disorder. Find someone who you can really connect with and open up to and don't force yourself to act okay around men, that will only make things worse.
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Posted: Tue May 16, 2006 11:03 pm
think hard about any triggers or stories from friends about men that could have started it. A counsellar whther at school (if you are still at school) or a pro counsellar. if the thought of talking to someone face to face freaks you out there are numbers you can call who talkt oy ou over the phone, (well at least there are in Australia)
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Posted: Fri Jul 07, 2006 9:11 am
Dark Romance anything happened to you? (((rape, sexual abuse, physical abuse, or anything else?)))
If so..... this could be a major part of your fear in men.
not that I remeber. My mother who I don't live with but is very speritual thinks its a past life experience.
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Posted: Mon Jul 17, 2006 7:15 pm
I agree with everyone who's said counsling.
I do not know why you feel this way toward males if you haven't been abused, but I had to go to counsling for abuse.
I was abuse (not sexually) by my mom's boyfriend along time ago. She never knew it either till much later after she ditched the loser.
He threatened to kill my mom if I ever told her he was beating me.
I was in counsling for about 5 years.
I hated men for three of those years.
I had my first boyfriend when I was 18 years old, who I'm still with now I'm 19. I told him of my past, so he's very understanding if something triggers a past memory and I lose it. I either start crying or start yelling and not know why. When he asks if something trigger something *so-n-so* did to me, I kinda pause and tell him about it, he rubs my back and helps me heal and let the little hurts wander back to the past and stay there.
So as you can see I've had (and still sommetimes have) men problems.
And I am still going through it. But the counsling really did help me out alot. The first two I saw were idiots, but the last three helped me more ways then I thought I needed.
(I moved alot, so that should explain why so many counslers)
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