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 Posted: Sun Jan 01, 2012 9:52 pm
I just wanted to share the good news... I'm in love with my boyfriend. I've been in love with him for a little while now. We haven't been dating too long yet, but that special connection is just there so strongly like oppositely charged ions.
I've dated men before, but to be honest, none of them wanted to stick around long enough to call me their girlfriend. But I'm twenty years old and finally the right man has entered my life. He treats me better than any other man has, he's honest, our relationship is very open and honest and the communication is impeccable. This really makes me happy because I've been so scared that I was doomed to have crappy relationships like my mother has had all her life that lacks the trust, communication and honesty that my relationship with my boyfriend does not lack.
For the first time in my life, I know that it''s okay to admit when I am not doing okay. My boyfriend has taught me how to share my inside feelings that I normally keep to myself. He's taught me that it's okay to cry as well, because he is there to genuinely comfort me and soothe me. I've told him secrets that I haven't told others before. I am truly a happier person since he entered my life.
What I love the most is that he's not just my boyfriend or lover, he's my best friend too. I adore how he and I can joke around with each other, be silly and total dorks and not be embarrassed about it. It's all just so natural. He gets along with my mom, her boyfriend, and my siblings. He honestly gets along so fantastically well with my three siblings that it seems like my boyfriend has been in the family since he himself was a young child.
The thing I am most grateful towards him for is making me feel so unbelievable safe with him where I don't have that compulsive urge to hide or put up the emotional walls that I have done so many times in the past. I didn't realize until he came along just how exhausting it was to keep myself so hidden. It makes me wonder how he was even able to find me in the first place?
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Posted: Mon Jan 02, 2012 7:57 am
I'm very happy for you! mrgreen
And I'm the same with my boyfriend as well. It's wonderful when you find that special someone, eh?
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2012 6:28 am
Sounds pretty close to what my last relationship was like. What killed it though was some of our moral differences and the travel distance between us. This is how all relationships should be though.
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