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 Posted: Thu Dec 22, 2011 2:56 pm
The girl I love has been friends with me since forever. She just called me about an argument her and her friend got into about who she likes. She always ask me for relationship advice and I always get so close to telling her I like her but I can't bring myself to do it.
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Posted: Thu Dec 22, 2011 2:59 pm
Wow... That's gotta suck... Well, unless you man up and tell her, I doubt you'll ever be more than just friends sad
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Posted: Thu Dec 22, 2011 3:06 pm
You're stuck in the friend zone, man.
Don't wait for her to ask you out. If you like her, go for it. Nothing sucks more than being in the friend zone.
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Posted: Thu Dec 22, 2011 3:42 pm
I know what you mean. Best to tell her now before someone else grabs her away from you. It sucks when they do...
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Posted: Thu Jan 12, 2012 3:29 pm
Well, being friendzoned always sucks, but what you should do is try to bring it up subtly. Either that or keep being her closest friend. Maybe she'll realize that she wants to be more than friends? I don't know, but the latter is such a long wait.
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Posted: Thu Jan 12, 2012 3:39 pm
I agree with the above posters. You definitely need to 'man up', and ask her out. However, you really need to think about how you ask her. DO NOT just randomly walk up to her and blurt out, "Hey, I've liked you for as long as I can remember, do you want to go out?" Not only is this tacky, it will put a lot of awkward stress onto your friendship if she says that she only likes you as a friend. Instead, go for something...Romantic. This will vary, depending on her personality and personal preferences. Now, for an example, if my best [guy] friend were to ask me out, I would prefer that he do it in a majorly romantic and cheesy fashion, with a bouquet of roses, a love letter, and him on his knees holding my hand. But that's just me. So, use your imagination, put yourself totally out there. That's the only true way. Oh, and don't forget to say what you really mean/feel.
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Posted: Thu Jan 12, 2012 3:51 pm
I agree with the rest. My only additional advice is to not tell her when she is asking you for relationship advice. If she is asking you for help then she is probably confused, and telling her then may just be painful for you both.
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Posted: Thu Jan 12, 2012 5:40 pm
You realize that 'friend-zone' is nearly impossible to get out of... because she's established you as just a friend. If you just go up to her and just say 'I wana date' or something... it's sort of got the same feeling if a guy friend walked up to you and said the same thing. She'd probably be all "What? No, no... that's too much. I just want to be friends." and things would get weird... not trying to be a Debby downer, but going after her very well may just make things strange... especially since you give her relationship advice and all...
So, you may have to try and look for someone else... because there's a good chance that saying something would ruin everything you have with her altogether.
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Posted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 1:42 pm
i know how you feel. i have a similar problem but(not to start a debate) mine is pretty much pushing me off a highway bridge. though if you 2 already act so close to each other and really enjoy hanging out and get to have your close moments, then to me, that's all i really need. all the other stuff to a relationship, i love you's, making out, sex, it all really complicates things between you and could turn everything rotten if you start fighting. me in my case, are forced not to even be able to hang out or have small cute moments and i have to watch her make out with her boyfriend who won her over from me every day during school. i had her for 2 years before and out of selfish stupidity, i lost her. you still have her near you at least. to me, that sounds like close enough. plus, you are always there for her once she comes around. these idiotic guys causing her problems are just a phase but you are always there. take pride in that man.
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 1:43 pm
Lets take a deep breath, just tell that girl of yours how you feel! I did with my crush, just things didn't turn out well cuz we weren't actually friends. Your situation is different and you're friends since forever ago and she will be able to understand, give it a try, it's never too late~
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