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 Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 6:37 pm
I've been in love love with the greatest person. We an awesome realationship and we love each other.. Very much. Before him, I only felt comfortable with girls. They were the only ones I felt I could ever find love with.
Now that we have been together for almost eight months, I'm starting to feel wrong. Almost as though I am looking for wrong. In everything. Though, I'm really not trying to. I love him. But, I just feel so out of place. It hurts. I find myself drawn to this girl. It kills me. I never want to hurt him. And he wants for us to spend the rest of our lives together.
I don't know why I posted this.. It's something that has been burning in my mind and I haven't found the strength or person to confess it to. I needed some where, some place, someone to know how I felt. Any advice or comments is welcomed with open arms. Thank you.
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 10:49 pm
Wow. I wish I could help. I really do. All I can do, though, is say hang in there. emotion_hug emotion_hug emotion_hug
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 11:40 pm
Any relationship is going to come with it's own unique challenges and temptations. Each one promises temporary excitement and thrills, but do not fall for these lies, they will only lead you on a path that will lead to pain for both you and your lover. Your search for flaws is a completely natural thing, it happens in almost any relationship that goes well for a long period of time, it just means that you're unconsciously or maybe even consciously worried that the deal is too good, you're looking for the catch without realizing that there isn't one. Now, about this girl, I doubt it's anything more than a little lust, but I'm not going to say that it is for sure, that's entirely up to you. Truthfully, I'm going to say you should play this like the Russians would: Why fix something that isn't broken?
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2011 11:03 am
I understand the situation that you are in my friend. I am bi and I've always loved both genders. I lost interest in relationship with guys a long while ago and it wasn't until just 2 months ago that I found love with a very special guy. He's very much like your guy -- wanting to spend a lifetime with me, but I just wasn't ready. Then one of his female friends, a bi, caught my interest, and I lusted after her for a while, but it was just a passing thing. Me and my boyfriend are still together, pretty much happily ever after at the moment. I hope you make it through and figure out if it's real love or just a long lasting lust.
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2011 11:49 am
i wish i could help u!
love is one the coolest things u can have and if u think YOU love him saty with him and be together like YOU want bt if not..it shld b up 2 u. u shldnt b with some1 u dnt love
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2011 11:55 am
Thank you so much. All of you. Your comment and advice mean a lot to me. They make me feel much better than I did before. So, again, thank you.
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