chinotenshi
I've been told SEVERAL times by friends here in Japan that bad cramps stop happening after you've had a kid. O_o
Your friends lie. Every woman is different. Every pregnancy is different, and your cycles may very well change after each pregnancy, but that's no guarantee.
It may get worse. It may get better. Uteruses suck that way.
My cycles are insanity since Xander was born. The cramps may not be as debilitating, but the blood loss is. I'm anemic and it takes most of the month to rebuild my blood supplies. I've complained about it before how severe it is, but just restating it to say...nope. Your friends are only speaking for themselves.
Between Gabrielle and Evan the cramps pretty much so went away. After Evan they were horrendous for two days each cycle. Then Xander and well...just said that.