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 Posted: Fri Nov 18, 2011 9:19 pm
Okay, so I've never really had anyone go down on me until this evening by my boyfriend. We ran into a complication though.
My c**t was really sensitive, so it tickled. It tickled to the point where I couldn't take it anymore and I'd burst out laughing and I'd have to push him away. I haven't had an orgasm for a while, so I wasn't sensitive because of that.
My question really is, is this normal? And if it is, can I fix it some how? I'd like to be able to receive oral sex from my boyfriend without having to push him away while laughing. He wants to give me an orgasm. He says he's never been with a girl who's had this issue before. He's my first boyfriend so what I experience with him is all new to me. I'm twenty years old if that has to do with anything. I feel bad for being "broken".
If I've left out any unanswered questions in order to help answer my question, please let me know.
Thanks!
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:37 am
You're not broken, and that is normal. Since the clitoris is so sensitive, direct stimulation can feel great, it can feel weird, it can feel ticklish, it can feel uncomfortable, or it can feel painful. For me, it usually feels painful or uncomfortable after an orgasm, and it usually feels weird or ticklish if I am not really in the mood. So try again some time when you are relaxed and in the mood. If it still feels weird or ticklish for you, try having him explore the area around your clitoris. That indirect stimulation works better for some women.
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2011 10:40 pm
LorienLlewellyn You're not broken, and that is normal. Since the clitoris is so sensitive, direct stimulation can feel great, it can feel weird, it can feel ticklish, it can feel uncomfortable, or it can feel painful. For me, it usually feels painful or uncomfortable after an orgasm, and it usually feels weird or ticklish if I am not really in the mood. So try again some time when you are relaxed and in the mood. If it still feels weird or ticklish for you, try having him explore the area around your clitoris. That indirect stimulation works better for some women.
My boyfriend has told me I need to just try and relax more for next time.
I hope eventually I can get over this. I can't help but feel bad for laughing when all he wants to do is make me feel good.
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2011 12:35 am
anime_freak_kouga LorienLlewellyn You're not broken, and that is normal. Since the clitoris is so sensitive, direct stimulation can feel great, it can feel weird, it can feel ticklish, it can feel uncomfortable, or it can feel painful. For me, it usually feels painful or uncomfortable after an orgasm, and it usually feels weird or ticklish if I am not really in the mood. So try again some time when you are relaxed and in the mood. If it still feels weird or ticklish for you, try having him explore the area around your clitoris. That indirect stimulation works better for some women.
My boyfriend has told me I need to just try and relax more for next time.
I hope eventually I can get over this. I can't help but feel bad for laughing when all he wants to do is make me feel good.It's not your fault, your body does what it does. Don't let him pin it all on you. neutral It just happened is all. Try Lorien's suggestions and see if they help. Sometimes non-direct stimulation is better than direct. Or maybe he can do something else while he's stimulating your c**t so that it's not just all-c**t-all-the-time, if that makes any sense (like using fingers, a toy, touching other parts of your body, etc).
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2011 6:06 pm
Nikolita anime_freak_kouga LorienLlewellyn You're not broken, and that is normal. Since the clitoris is so sensitive, direct stimulation can feel great, it can feel weird, it can feel ticklish, it can feel uncomfortable, or it can feel painful. For me, it usually feels painful or uncomfortable after an orgasm, and it usually feels weird or ticklish if I am not really in the mood. So try again some time when you are relaxed and in the mood. If it still feels weird or ticklish for you, try having him explore the area around your clitoris. That indirect stimulation works better for some women.
My boyfriend has told me I need to just try and relax more for next time.
I hope eventually I can get over this. I can't help but feel bad for laughing when all he wants to do is make me feel good.It's not your fault, your body does what it does. Don't let him pin it all on you. neutral It just happened is all. Try Lorien's suggestions and see if they help. Sometimes non-direct stimulation is better than direct. Or maybe he can do something else while he's stimulating your c**t so that it's not just all-c**t-all-the-time, if that makes any sense (like using fingers, a toy, touching other parts of your body, etc).
I will try your guys' suggestions next time I get the chance =)
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Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2011 2:39 pm
No offense, but if I was your boyfriend. Any physical experience I gave you that was positive, even ticklish feeling, would make me feel great.
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Posted: Tue Nov 29, 2011 6:19 pm
anime_freak_kouga Nikolita anime_freak_kouga LorienLlewellyn You're not broken, and that is normal. Since the clitoris is so sensitive, direct stimulation can feel great, it can feel weird, it can feel ticklish, it can feel uncomfortable, or it can feel painful. For me, it usually feels painful or uncomfortable after an orgasm, and it usually feels weird or ticklish if I am not really in the mood. So try again some time when you are relaxed and in the mood. If it still feels weird or ticklish for you, try having him explore the area around your clitoris. That indirect stimulation works better for some women.
My boyfriend has told me I need to just try and relax more for next time.
I hope eventually I can get over this. I can't help but feel bad for laughing when all he wants to do is make me feel good.It's not your fault, your body does what it does. Don't let him pin it all on you. neutral It just happened is all. Try Lorien's suggestions and see if they help. Sometimes non-direct stimulation is better than direct. Or maybe he can do something else while he's stimulating your c**t so that it's not just all-c**t-all-the-time, if that makes any sense (like using fingers, a toy, touching other parts of your body, etc).
I will try your guys' suggestions next time I get the chance =)Ok. smile Well I'm glad to hear he's being supportive, and try not to be too hard on yourself. And I hope Lorien's suggestions work for you guys! ^_^
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