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 Posted: Wed Oct 12, 2011 11:15 pm
Me and my boyfriend are not "really" sexually active, as we have not had sex yet. But we are active in that we both give oral and hand jobs. We are planning to wait till after I go on the pill (which I am scheduled for in nov).
I keep getting this nagging feeling I messed up and might be pregnant. I think I might be psyching myself out, but I am not sure.
Last Friday me and him were goofing around. No actual intercourse took place. I had given him oral, and a hand job, but he never came. There was pre-come though. I may our may not have touched it with my fingers, I don't honestly know. And I don't know if I had wiped off my hands at one point. But in all of my own stupidity, I touched my self, and my boyfriend made a point of mentioning it, leading me to believe I did touch his pre-come.
This has been bugging me all week, could I be pregnant. My period isn't due till around the twentieth to the twenty-fifth.
I'm nervous as ********, and I'm trying to calm down so that I don't miss my period due to stress and then stress more if I'm not pregnant.
I havn't been tired or nauseous
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Posted: Thu Oct 13, 2011 6:45 am
Pregnancy is possible but not terribly likely from what you described. So there's a good chance that you're fine, but you definitely don't want to make a habit of doing that either.
Symptoms or lack of symptoms will not tell you if you are pregnant or not. Most pregnancy symptoms do not show up for at least two weeks, so even if you were pregnant, you probably would not be feeling anything for a little while yet. Early pregnancy symptoms can also be the same as symptoms for other things, like PMS, the flu, stress, etc. And you can also trick yourself into feeling early pregnancy symptoms if you are hoping for or are worried about pregnancy. So never assume anything based on symptoms. The only way to know for sure is by taking a pregnancy test. Most home pregnancy tests are not accurate until around the time that your period is due.
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:42 pm
Don't stress to much about being pregnant, I agree with what lorien said about it. Pre-c** can cause pregnancy, but with the way things went down, it's highly unlikely. Also even if you miss your period it doesn't mean your pregnant, my gf thought she was pregnant for this guy she was with way before we met and she didn't have her period for about five month eek I don't know much about the female body, but even I know that's odd.
Also another thing if you stress over it to much you can end up with hysterical pregnancy. I don't want to get you worried about that, but it could happen. If you don't know what that is then you should look it up on google.
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Posted: Sun Oct 16, 2011 6:26 pm
Thanks guys, I feel a lot better now. I actually felt reassured by Lorien's and when I felt sure enough I told my boyfriend how I was worried for that split second and that I was now positive that I was fine.
I think I was more worried about the panic attack that he'd have then actually being pregnant because after his initial twenty questions about if I was sure I was fine he felt better about it and all my stress went bye-bye.
Thanks again!
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