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 Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2011 8:56 pm
This is just a little rant (whether anyone want's to read it or not, I just need to vent).
From my limited experience with gay guys... I just can't bring myself to understand them.
The story that led me to rant about this is that at the beginning of the summer, I met this guy and we started dating. For the first week, we were pretty much really into eachother, but after that, that completely plummeted.
I tried to tell myself that things were just normalizing out.
After about a month and a half, I came to terms with the fact that I knew he didn't like me any more and I brought it up so we decided to end things. Yeah, cool and everything. We didn't really talk for a few days after that, but then he started texting me saying we should hang out.
So about 4 days ago... we hung out, and the whole night he was pretty much coming on to me pretty strong... which pretty much ended up with us making out the rest of the night.
Then 2 days ago, we hung out again and it started out with him kind of trying to get close to me, but it felt like he suddenly decided to try to inch away from me the whole night.
Now I get the feeling he is going to try to distance himself from me again (I am pretty good at reading people in certain situations)...
So yeah... All my experiences with gay guys seem to go like this and many wishy-washy situations.
Any one want to shed some lights on how exactly gay guys work... because I sure as hell am having a hard time figuring it out. =/
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Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2011 9:09 pm
I don't think it's a gay guy thing- I think it's a people thing. I've seen it in both the women I've been with and the men.
I have been told by a gay friend that since most of "them" don't plan to settle down and have kids and family, it's easier for "them" to have lots of partners and to start and end relationships on the fly.
I say "them" in quotation marks because even though that was the word he was using- he was really only speaking for himself. talk2hand
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Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2011 9:12 pm
Yeah... I guess it makes sense that it's not just a guy thing.
I haven't really dated girls, so I wasn't sure if guys dating guys works any differently.
Then again, I am not used to dating guys either :S
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Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2011 9:43 pm
Wow. Well I've had experience with that. XD Yeah its a people thing. I'd guess he's just scared of something.
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 1:21 am
I'm agreeing with everyone else...it's just a people thing.
He's just being dumb.
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 2:48 pm
Yeah. Just reiterating what everyone else has already said: It's a people thing, not a gay guy thing.
Not really a good idea to bash an entire group of people based on your experiences with one guy. razz
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 2:50 pm
ugh that sound aggravating XD
it does sound like a people thing, though. I've observed girls and guys alike with similar problems.
if it were me, i wouldnt spend too much time on those people because everyone deserves someone who is totally and completely into them, and not so wishy-washy. You'll find someone like that, there are so many other people out there :3
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 2:51 pm
You know i'll be honest. sometimes people do things and no matter how much psychology you take you may never understand it. It irks me as well why people act the way they do. The best you can do is try not to get too hurt by it and understand that it's most likely not something you did and that person is who they are and they may never make sense.
It all comes down to whether or not you can stand to live with it.
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