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 Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2011 8:36 pm
i want to b gay but i just dont like boys. is that wrong? and how do i fix this?
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2011 8:43 pm
This is quite an interesting dilemma you're having. Is there a reason you don't want to be straight? I think if you're not attracted to guys, you shouldn't try to be. The gay community doesn't like when we're being pressured to change, so just think of it that way. 'Cause baby, you were born this way!
(I hate that song. I just found the quote appropriate xD)
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2011 8:49 pm
ugh why...
i just think it sounds a little weird you want to act like you are attracted to a gender you arn’t attracted to without an apparent reason sweatdrop
i mean it just doesn’t make a whole lot of sense confused
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2011 9:17 pm
You can act gay without being gay.... It's called Metrosexual (Metro for short)
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2011 10:06 pm
Dont force yourself to be something your not.. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2011 6:53 am
You can't just "become" gay because you want to. And why would you want to? So that ignorant people can verbally and physically abuse you, or push you to the brink of suicide? So you can pretend to be "cool" while people avoid you like a disease?
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I'm sorry if I totally missed your intentions there. To put it simply, your sexuality is what it is. For some, it can go through slight changes naturally, but it's not something that you can force just because you want it.
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Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2011 7:56 am
yeaaahhhhhhh.....no. sorry, but thats just stupid. you cant be gay without liking guys. the whole metrosexual thing is interesting, but it wont make you look gay, i think. you'll just be like Mr Chow from the Hangover
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Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2011 9:47 am
i dont really understand at all how that could work.. being gay is a guy liking other guys sweatdrop
is there things about being 'gay' that seem appealing to you? because if it isnt liking guys, you most likely dont have to be gay to have it (might be worded funny but i didnt know how else to say it..)
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Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2011 1:43 pm
This is new. You can't be gay without... actually being gay.
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Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2011 1:41 pm
You could always dive into your mind and trick yourself into liking boys if it means that much to you.
It's probably dangerous, however. Have you ever heard stories about gay people being sent to therapy to 'change' them? They end up depressed, mentally scarred, ect. and for the most part, it doesn't work. Like everyone has been saying, be who you are.
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Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2011 6:54 pm
Like, like, like a trend...Okay, here's 3 responses to 3 parts of that:
"I want to be gay" : You can't automatically be something just because you "want to be". You actually have to be like that.
"But I just don't like boys" : Then, hun, you're obviously NOT gay. Being gay is nothing a person necessarily "wants" it's just something a person IS. And if you're not attracted to the same gender, then you're just not gay. Nothing else to it.
"how do I fix this?" : Stop wanting to be who your not. Your sexuality is NOT a choice, it's who you are. ...You'll just, just fade away.
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Posted: Tue Sep 06, 2011 12:02 am
I lol'd. This guy knows that gay guys get all the bitches.
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Posted: Thu Sep 08, 2011 10:49 pm
If you really want to be gay you should try online dating with gay/bi guys, it will help you get used to being with a guy so you could fall in love with one and once you're in love then you'll get hooked. 3nodding
I've been through this so you aren't alone, and if you want it to work then it will just don't push yourself into it unless you really honestly want to be gay and don't want to use the gay title to get girls. I've known guys like that.. =.=
But if you really can't see yourself being with a man then you shouldn't push yourself into being with one. & you don't want to push yourself too hard, you are who you are and who knows if the whole after life thing is true then maybe you'll be gay then. 3nodding
Good luck either way & if you have any random questions or anything feel free to PM me or something, I might be able to help since I've been through that to. ^ ^ heart
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