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 Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 9:34 am
They say you waste time asleep...
I've known this girl, Chloe, for about two years since I got randomly grouped with her in a match of Call of Duty on Xbox Live. In the ten minutes we chatted over the microphones, we hit it off pretty quickly so I friend requested her. Since then, we've played countless matches together online. During that time at one point or another, I asked for her last name, and then friend requested her on Facebook. For some reason I decided to sell my Xbox to my close friend. I simply decided that video games took up far too much time in my life and chose that I would focus my efforts on other things that I enjoyed more, like practicing guitar, going out, smoking cannabis, and skating to name a few. In this time I sort of had forgotten about Chloe. I did see her on Facebook now and again, commented on pictures and whatnot, but we never really had a long, personal discussion with each other.
Now, in the time frame I just described, I always assumed that there was some special guy in her life. I had never asked, and she wasn't in a relationship on Facebook, but it never really occurred to me that pursuing a relationship with her wouldn't be too bad of an idea. However, she lives in Canada, around a four hour drive from where I live. For some reason, I decided to chat with her a bit on Facebook. I think I was high and I knew she was a stoner so I decided to tell her I was stoned and we had a little fun chatting. Then sometime later I talked to her again, sober. We had a bit more serious discussion and talked about ourselves and each other and discovered that we had a lot in common, way more than we had thought. We're both musicians and we play the same instruments, we love the same bands, we're both perceiving, intuitive introverts, we love intellectualism and philosophy, and we hate normal people.
Sometimes out of nowhere she would just say the kindest things she could possibly say to me. This is literally quoted text from Facebook chat:
"I was just stoned-ranting to my friend and I realized something. You are the most amazing person I've ever met. Now that I think about it and s**t I could see myself never disliking anything about you. It's kind of uplifting."
"You're just so like.. aahhh, I don't know. I would describe you as the most interesting, intelligent, amazing, beautiful person I know. Just some of the things you say makes me smile because I can't imagine anyone else saying it the way you do. You're just so perfect to me and I can't even get over it."
"You're not like anyone else I've met, that's what I love. I thought I'd just keep going and sorting through boring people. Then I started talking to you and my eyes just got so opened to more things. More possibilities."
These things are written for a reason. I'm really intellectual. I absolutely love opening up and talking about incredibly deep things with her. I love discussing the human psyche and helping things make more sense for her. I'm very good at that. Apparently, she thinks I'm attractive as well. Anyone who has seen me or a picture of me says that I'm attractive, but I don't see it. I dunno. :/ (speaking of aesthetic beauty, this girl's gorgeous imo)
Then she asked me to move to California with her. I said yes. She said she wasn't serious at first but I could tell her eyes lit up as soon as she realized I was serious. Here's precisely what we told each other.
Chloe: Run away to Cali with me -.-=
Me: Let's do it man
Chloe: YES
*the next day*
Me: Dude, since you said that, it's all becoming clear to me... California is where I belong, man. One of the greatest music schools in the US is there. I've always wanted to learn how to surf. I ******** love the sun. And obviously, I love pot, and there are dispensaries EVERYWHERE. If I had to take a bet, Cali would be the first state to decriminalize marijuana.
Chloe: (: I kinda had that awakening a few months ago. God, get with the program.;p
Me: Cali would honestly be the most awesome thing ever. I plan on keeping to my word. Unless of course, something were to make us fall out, when you're 18, let's go to Cali.
Chloe: You serious? You'll go with me?
Me: Dead serious.
Chloe: Just turned my day right side up smile
Ever since then, one of our favorite things to talk about is California. When we're gonna go, where we'll live, what we'll bring, what life will be like, what we'll do, who we're gonna miss, everything. Like the thread title says, I'm just so happy right now. Especially since there is much less pressure to go find a girl. I already have the perfect one, what do I need another girl for?
...but I'm just tryna dream.
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Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 9:57 am
This is the longest post ever so I didn't read a lot of it, but sounds like you lucked out. You get to run away to Cali with an amazing person. Btw, CT made having under an ounce of pot only punishable with a fine, no jail time. We're getting there sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 10:29 am
Id be very cvriovs to hear how being a stoner and being an intellectval can coexist in yovr head, bvt I svppose that wovld be another tinne and another thread. As for the topic, do as yov will, bvt rvnning off to a different covntry with sonneone before spending any tinne with thenn in real life covld ivst be the worst decision of yovr life.
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Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 11:11 am
Matasoga Id be very cvriovs to hear how being a stoner and being an intellectval can coexist in yovr head, bvt I svppose that wovld be another tinne and another thread. As for the topic, do as yov will, bvt rvnning off to a different covntry with sonneone before spending any tinne with thenn in real life covld ivst be the worst decision of yovr life.
Don't take presumptions against stoners. They are some of the most brilliant people. Louis Armstrong, The Beatles, Bob Denver, Bill Clinton, George Bush (okay, never mind him), Carl Sagan, Michael Bloomberg, Lewis Caroll, George Washington Carver, Salvador Dali, Al Gore, Steve Jobs, John Kennedy, John Wayne, George Washington, Thomas Jefferson and even Barack Obama all smoked pot. I was the valedictorian of my grade school in a class of 200 kids and I get mostly A's in my high school classes. Dope doesn't really make you a dope. It's what you would call... a misnomer?
Anyway, about the other comment, firstly, I'm not going to a different country, I'm going to another state. Secondly, why so presumptuous, man? You're really just killing my vibe with that "worst decision of your life" stuff.
...but I'm just tryna dream.
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Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 12:03 pm
Roxy Hazard This is the longest post ever so I didn't read a lot of it, but sounds like you lucked out. You get to run away to Cali with an amazing person. Btw, CT made having under an ounce of pot only punishable with a fine, no jail time. We're getting there sweatdrop
rolleyes It wasn't really that long. That's what she said.
...but I'm just tryna dream.
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Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 12:29 pm
So...Here I am. The girl who you're running away with, the one who made a gaia account just to see this post that would make my insides light up, the one who isn't aloud to be smart and a stoner heh. Oh people and there people-ness, so presumptuous and more naive then ever. Well, random person up there^ I'll take your theory into consideration after I finish highschool with a 4.33 average.
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Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 12:33 pm
Have nothing against this. Do what you think is right.
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Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 1:53 pm
Umbrae Ac Silentium Matasoga Id be very cvriovs to hear how being a stoner and being an intellectval can coexist in yovr head, bvt I svppose that wovld be another tinne and another thread. As for the topic, do as yov will, bvt rvnning off to a different covntry with sonneone before spending any tinne with thenn in real life covld ivst be the worst decision of yovr life.
Don't take presumptions against stoners. They are some of the most brilliant people. Louis Armstrong, The Beatles, Bob Denver, Bill Clinton, George Bush (okay, never mind him), Carl Sagan, Michael Bloomberg, Lewis Caroll, George Washington Carver, Salvador Dali, Al Gore, Steve Jobs, John Kennedy, John Wayne, George Washington, Thomas Jefferson and even Barack Obama all smoked pot. I was the valedictorian of my grade school in a class of 200 kids and I get mostly A's in my high school classes. Dope doesn't really make you a dope. It's what you would call... a misnomer?
Anyway, about the other comment, firstly, I'm not going to a different country, I'm going to another state. Secondly, why so presumptuous, man? You're really just killing my vibe with that "worst decision of your life" stuff.
...but I'm just tryna dream. I wish that nny vibe had been shot down by people first. Nost of nny lessons in ronnance had to be learned the hardest way innaginable... Bvt this isnt abovt nne. Looks like a lot of those nannes yov threw ovt belonged to people who had done it once or at least very infreqently. This does not nnake one a stoner. There is so nnvch nnore that I covld say to this argvennent, bvt I wont, becavse this isnt abovt that, either. As I said, yov nnay do ivst whatever yov like with yovr life. Yov did not conne to nne specifically with yovr advice, so I wont ever say I told yov so... Especially this tinne, becavse I didnt really tell yov anything. If yov werent prepared to have yovr proverbial bvzz harshed, however, the internet nnay not be the best place to go. As it is, yov canne to pvt it there, seenningly open to replies, thovghts, and advice. I said what I had to say and vnless qvestioned fvrther, I shall say no nnore. If yov want to continve the debate on pot, I will have plenty to say, bvt I will want to collect and present nny thovghts nnore clearly and intelligently than nny cvrrent levels of interest, schedvle for the day, and nnalfvnctioning keyboard will allow, bvt I wovld certainly not be averse to having it ovt with yov on that topic with the depth that the topic deserves, bvt once again, another tinne, another thread.
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