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Alexander J Luthor

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 23, 2011 6:46 am


NerdOrgy
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I cried for the first time in a long while the other day. I was told right before I went to work that my great gam gam died. ; 3; And you expect me to get through a day after that? WTF, MOM!? D,:<

Truthfully I don’t think I will cry if my grandmother(I Call her nana) passes away...>.> cuz I hate her.

Though the other one....Shes been in my life more then Nana so....I don’t really know but if the day comes I guess I’ll have to post it I guess.

I wasn't expecting to cry either. I think it's because of the way they treated her. The woman's 91, birthed 12 kids, saw four great great grand children and had about three more born after that, survived two rounds of cancer and other such ailments... I'm pro-kavorkian and for the past few months she's been ready to go, living on hospice and asking the nurse for a sleeping overdose, so when I found out they took her off everything but pain meds I went into a rage. They expected her to live at least two weeks before the fluids filling her body suffocated her in her sleep. Luckily, it was only two days.

It was shocking because it was the day after we had gone up to see her.


You never know who you'll cry for or why. I always cry harder for movies than I do most people in my life. Just the other day that flash mob show was on and I started crying with the girl as she was mobbed into a surprised wedding. That was horribly embarassing and unexpected. o 3o;;
PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2011 8:04 am


NerdOrgy
Well, recently my mom started talking to me about not ever crying, I don’t cry. Though I don’t really see what the problem is. I just don’t like to express feelings like others do.
I like to be quiet and mind my own business but I guess my mother doesn’t think its normal for a child to not cry.

My Mother is a very sensitive person, when she’s depressed...She cries, when she’s sad about something so stupid, she cries.
I don’t get why someone cries over stupid things that have no meaning in life. Though I guess we have different point of views.
Sometimes I feel I should speak to her about my feelings but I am afraid of hurting her feelings.

Should I tell her all the things I should? Or keep it inside and spare her feelings?


im the same way. i try to express my feelings but i just don't express them like other people do. my mom tells me that its unnatural and that i have no human emotions, or a heart, or a soul. but i think she's right coz to be honest that doesn't bother me what so ever.i think that its bad to keep ur emotions inside, i mean i know u don't wanna see her cry but i've made my mother cry just from speaking my mind and im getting used to it. tell her how u feel in the nicest way possible and if she still doesn't get it then i would just say it plain and simple but u may choose to rephrase it

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 11:08 pm


NerdOrgy

She's probably worried that you're bottling everything up. Parents always want to know what's going on in their kids' lives. It's natural.

I think talking to her about your feelings wouldn't hurt right? If her feelings are hurt, though I don't see how, at least you guys will have more forward in some direction right? She's your mom. Like it or not, she's wants to know these things. It's progress.
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