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 Posted: Mon Aug 08, 2011 9:26 pm
I am truely afraid to tell my parents of my bi/lesbianness not because i think that they wont love me, but because i am afraid the will love me less, and feel aquard to be around me. i know i will probably have to tell them someday, but i feel that my relationship with my parents is FAR more important than some short-term, highschool drama relationship that will end badly, but i want to have a lover someday T crying T
this fear has prevented me from having any " first kiss" , dates, or any of that jazz, even with a boy because i am afriad that they wont believe me. OTL
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Posted: Mon Aug 08, 2011 10:15 pm
I'm in a very similar situation. I know my parents will still love me (especially my mom), but I don't want to make them disappointed in me. I've decided that it's time to tell them, but when I go to say those words, my courage dries up. I even tried recording a video and asking my mom to watch it, thinking it wouldn't be as difficult to do, but that failed as well. I also know things will be awkward at first, but I really believe now they will get over it...eventually. Good luck!
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Posted: Mon Aug 08, 2011 10:32 pm
The Neko CatGirl I am truely afraid to tell my parents of my bi/lesbianness not because i think that they wont love me, but because i am afraid the will love me less, and feel aquard to be around me. i know i will probably have to tell them someday, but i feel that my relationship with my parents is FAR more important than some short-term, highschool drama relationship that will end badly, but i dont want to have a lover someday T crying T this fear has prevented me from having any " first kiss" , dates, or any of that jazz, even with a boy because i am afriad that they wont believe me. OTL I might be able to help you
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Posted: Tue Aug 09, 2011 8:56 pm
Thank you, im hoping fate will work this thing out, ill just wait untill i have no choice xD bollier I'm in a very similar situation. I know my parents will still love me (especially my mom), but I don't want to make them disappointed in me. I've decided that it's time to tell them, but when I go to say those words, my courage dries up. I even tried recording a video and asking my mom to watch it, thinking it wouldn't be as difficult to do, but that failed as well. I also know things will be awkward at first, but I really believe now they will get over it...eventually. Good luck!
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