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 Posted: Wed Jul 06, 2011 7:40 pm
Alright, I don't normally do this, but the time has come for me to turn to the people of Gaia for advice.
What's wrong with me? If anyone has had an honest convo with me, am I awkward? Strange? Freely? Maybe I should explain this a bit better...
I live near N.Y.C. This last week I've been down in the city hanging out, looking around, just chillin basically. The only problem with this is that my friends couldn't come with...even then, I was alright at first. Today it hit me, everywhere I looked were groups of best friends or worse couples.
Let me rant right now, I hate couples. Every time I look at them I feel SICK TO MY STOMACH. Not 'cause they're being gross or anything, but because no matter how hard I try I can't end up in one. Am I a total troll? Am I a b*tch? There are only two groups that pay attention to me. 95% of this group are Men over 40 ((I'm 17)). The other 5% are girls.
I am not a lesbian. I'm starting to think I should become one though, there seems to be a sign on my back that no one told me about that says 'men stay away'. This brings me to my next problem; they few times I do get hit on by a girl my face goes all blushy((...well, as much as a black girl can blush)) and I lose my train of thought. I'm not sexually attracted to girls though...at least I don't think, but I think I would know at this age.
I need any kind of help. How to flirt with people, how to look my own age, if I'm just enjoying being flirted with or if I'm bi heck; could someone tell me how to introduce myself to someone new? I have two days left to hang out in the city and my ACTUAL town is kinda small and really small minded. Any help is appreciated. I'm hanging this is both 'Why not' and the Gaia 'G.S.A.' in case people see it twice. Thanks
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Posted: Wed Jul 06, 2011 7:54 pm
I think I can relate maybe. It seems like people just stare at me wherever I go but never say a word. I can't tell if I'm just too stunning or too scary or just ugly. *shrugs*
I think the best advice would be to just stop worrying about it and be yourself.
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Posted: Wed Jul 06, 2011 8:01 pm
I have the same problem...except I'm a lesbian, and the few people who ever show interest in me are men. But they have to be rather obvious for me to tell that they're flirting. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Jul 06, 2011 9:07 pm
well, noone likes me either...but i have freinds who told me what the issue was.
they told me that it wasnt my being socially awkward, but apparently that i just put out the 'untouchable' aura in person.....and maybe that people DO like me like that but are just too scared to make it known. ((people see me as the scary witch girl and think i have a deathlist...which comes in handy in all feilds of life except relationships. xP))
but dont get worked up over it, at least you DO get hit on by someone!!! not even ***** or other girls hit on me!! its kinda pathetic, really.
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Posted: Wed Jul 06, 2011 10:37 pm
:/ I think I do the untouchable aura too.
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Posted: Sat Jul 16, 2011 8:11 pm
Put me face to face and my eyes have such a loving way I can get people to fall for me...downer is, they're too..much of players. But they're perfect somewhat, they're up to ten years older.
But the best part, I get free things, yesterday I got the most expensive burger they had for free. But I go for bother genders, more so sticking to masculine women. Their more understanding but they have that macho part that I like.
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Posted: Sat Jul 16, 2011 8:47 pm
I understand what you mean. My mom says people are interested in me,but I never see it or if I think I see it it freaks me out, it's usually older guys too. I think I put off that untouchable aura too. The only advice I could really think to give is like others said is to be yourself and just let things work themselves out.
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Posted: Sat Jul 16, 2011 9:26 pm
I have the exact same problem. I'm trying to learn to ignore it, but it's getting harder to do so. Honestly, I don't exactly know what to tell you. :/ But I think you should know you're not the only one going through that.
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Posted: Sat Jul 16, 2011 10:19 pm
Its better to be hit on by few people than many. Because when your in a relationship, you partner will always worry.
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Posted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 2:56 pm
Your outfit is cute. Your page is nice, always good to see a Naruto fan. What's bad or strange about that? An anime Fan is always a PLUS for me.
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