"No, Im sure I determine My sexuality thank you..."

[Saturdays Tierce]

So, a friend-of-mine's sister is trying to convince me that because I had a cover up (before I was out I had a relationship with a girl so people wouldn't think anything) and That I like guys that I'm Bisexual.

... neutral Yea no, thats not how it works out. I think its mostly because she had a crush on me at one time.


Aaany who, anyone ever have a friend try to convince you that you were another orientation? I'm sure they have, but still...  

[..s.k.i.t.t.l.e.s..]

Yeah. I have. They kinda make me
mad. But not because I was angry,
per se. It was more like... why does
it honestly matter to you WHAT I
am? Don't you like me regardless?
I just learned after that day that I
really knew who my friends were, and
they weren't it. Because my besties know
who I am, and could honestly give a flying
s**t WHAT I am. :3  

[Aesuna]

Of course, parents and grandparents. "You're confusing yourself. You have girls as friends, so you like them a lot and confuse that as love." Oh, yeah? I have guys as friends, too. I'm not at all interested in them in the way that I am towards women. Thank you for your concern, but I think I can take it from here. stare  

[Sleepless Scholar]

Someone in my color guard (also an awesome friend lol) is gay but this creepy girl that's also on the team (my enemy also) said that she was going to turn him "straight" so she can date him. I felt sooooo bad for him. The hole guard did (no one likes her cause shes evil)  

[Shanna66]

no me personally but all my friends and coworkers tried to convince me my bisexual ex boyfriend was gay because he cheated on me with a boy and a girl. i really wished i understood the logic they used for that one confused

my best friend kept bringing it up and kept bringing it up and i finally exploded on her becasue i found it offensive that someone couple be bi even if they screw with both sexes. this was before i came out to her. im sure if she had know im bi she wouldnt have kept teasing me about it  

[Joeytastic]

Well all my gay guy friends hit on me trying to tell me I'm gay or bi. Though I don't know why they think that I'm "in the closet". I want a wife and 3 kids. Just because a lot of my friends are gay and I'm in the GSA club at my school doesn't mean I'm gay.  

[APigInAWig]

HAte it when people do that. Currently, I'm out to like 2. The first one took it pretty well but the second one...not so much. Shes trying to convince me that I'm straight. Its because she had(and I think still does) a crush on me. Meh, she'll get over it sooner or later. neutral  

[Sarah_L_Awesome]

yeah the girls in my class are telling me i'm bi because apparently i have a crush on a guy i don't have a crush on who happens to be one of my best guy friends (WHAT THE HELL???)  

[Atrum_Anima]

I've had a somewhat similar situation; my sister's best friend (who is now one of my close friends, too) had a crush on me, because she likes long hair. I was too stupid to realize it at first, though. Anyway, when she found out that I was gay, she kept on asking, "Are you sure you're not bi?", so much so that I had to double-check myself. XD But she wasn't being too rude about it.  

[Silver Sage-General]

x.x Dude its why I stay away from my family. Well I mean I'm bi now but that's a recent decision. When I was just gay, every time I was around them all I heard was "Dustin you need a good girlfriend who'll set you right." or "You're just confused. Go to church with us."

Lol its funny when these same people complain about my long hair and how I need to cut it. (Btw I luuuuuv my hair.) and will say "Boys don't like boys with long hair."

My reaction '...Wait what?'  

[Amaterasu Nisshoku]

sweatdrop lolz welll....one timeee, my mom thought it would be cool to try and convince me that im NOT bi. she told i had to choose either or....heh
yeah...didnt work she ended up exploding and calling me a greedy b***h...so i left the house and spent the week with ma friend...really pissed her off biggrin  

[Elapsed Dreams]

Before when I was lesbian two of my male friends kept going on and on about how they'd "******** me bisexual". They were seriously moronic enough to think I would sleep with them and to think they're so good in bed they could get me in bed and make me like guys. =.=
Heh, one went as far as drugging me to get me in bed then got what he deserved when I woke up- luckily before anything bad happened.. burning_eyes Well, both of them tried the rape way to making me bisexual. Just neither got what they wanted. Sooo not my friends anymore! >.<
All they had to do was wait for my current, male, lover and they would have known he's the only one to make me a lesbian with a guy in bed. I know, confusing, but the more I think about it I'm still a lesbian that fell for only one guy so that doesn't make me bi in my mind anymore. Since the start of this post I figured that out.
Strange, I know. xd

 

[Toker Rockett]

I have had people tell me that I can't possibly be trans because I don't dress male enough which is rubbish. I have plugs in my ears and I have an orbital along with a vertical labret piercing. Because of this, I get that I am not male enough. It's pathetic that I have to prove myself as male by the way I dress. don't really get what "living like a man is" anyway. I get up, look for something clean, throw it on and leave. I have short hair, I dress like a guy, I talk like a guy, act like one so wtf? I also hate it when I have a deep voice and I get called "dear", "ma'am", "miss" or "ladies". The last one usually happens when I'm with my gf or out with my mom. When I'm with my dad, I don't get that.

I also have had morons tell me I'm not bisexual (I'm more pansexual but whatever. So few people understand that). Oh no, you aren't bisexual because you dated a woman for so long. Pfft, yeah, whatever. I hate it. I hate it so much. I like a person for who they are, not for what's in between their legs. I wish people would stop telling me what I am and what I'm not.