Let's get this straight, I'm not.
I'm bi and I came out to one of my closest friends recently.
She has mentioned that she doesn't really like gays, lesbians, bis, etc. She doesn't mind their love but as long as it isn't in front of her.
Over the past few weeks she became some what distant from me and she hasn't helped me on anything. Such as, recently (who I thought was my friend...let's call her SH) told me directly that she didn't want to be friends with me and she never wanted me in the first place.
I tried explaining to this friend (who doesn't really like gays , let's call her SA) about the situation but in every single way she could she tried defending SH.
Until I told her that SH directly said rude things to me, not only about her not wanting to be my friend, SA went blank and went on with her life with no comment.
A little bit before then SA started talking to SH more than me, and SH doesn't like SA at all. But SA only talks to her because she A. Knows her and B. SH is straight.
Before she started talking to SH, she made a comment on one of the yaoi pictures on gaia and said it was basically really gross. I told her that she was gross in quick come back. SA quickly said sorry and went on with her life.
It sounds like SA is a b***h, but she's not. She's a very good friend and helps me on anything, at least that was before I came out. What should I do with SA? Should I keep her around still or leave her? Because I have to be close with someone that I'm already close with or never see them again.
If there's any questions you have for me, please let me know. I just need help.
I'm bi and I came out to one of my closest friends recently.
She has mentioned that she doesn't really like gays, lesbians, bis, etc. She doesn't mind their love but as long as it isn't in front of her.
Over the past few weeks she became some what distant from me and she hasn't helped me on anything. Such as, recently (who I thought was my friend...let's call her SH) told me directly that she didn't want to be friends with me and she never wanted me in the first place.
I tried explaining to this friend (who doesn't really like gays , let's call her SA) about the situation but in every single way she could she tried defending SH.
Until I told her that SH directly said rude things to me, not only about her not wanting to be my friend, SA went blank and went on with her life with no comment.
A little bit before then SA started talking to SH more than me, and SH doesn't like SA at all. But SA only talks to her because she A. Knows her and B. SH is straight.
Before she started talking to SH, she made a comment on one of the yaoi pictures on gaia and said it was basically really gross. I told her that she was gross in quick come back. SA quickly said sorry and went on with her life.
It sounds like SA is a b***h, but she's not. She's a very good friend and helps me on anything, at least that was before I came out. What should I do with SA? Should I keep her around still or leave her? Because I have to be close with someone that I'm already close with or never see them again.
If there's any questions you have for me, please let me know. I just need help.
