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 Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2006 2:06 pm
Falling in love is a problem.
I went to 4-h camp last Friday through today. Well, there was a close friend of mine [Matt] staying there too. On the bus ride up to camp, I sat with Matt, and we shared my iPod. I started to get carsick in hour 4.5/6 on our drive to the Poconos. Matt offered to let me sleep on him, and I fell asleep as he sang Fall Out Boy. I woke up a half hour later, and he had his arms around me, and he was asleep. His face was tearstained. He woke up as I did, and stared into my eyes with his, which are a softer, paler green than mine. As twilight gave way to darkness, he hugged me tightly, and whispered "I love you more than anything". Then we kissed. But this was different. It was like a feeling of love. Everything felt right, I was happy.
But back up....
Just two weeks earlier at GCSC, (Our 4-H meeting) he said "I like you alot, just not that way". So, what was the front? Loving me, or just being friends?
He and I talked about very important things, and sobbed together. Then, after the sobbing match, he acted almost distant. He's behaving oddly, even though he's still nice to me, and very sweet to me.
So what's his deal???
UPDATE: I called him today after school. He was rather distant, and didn't seem like he wanted to talk to me. I just tried to let it go, but it hurts. I think it might've been because he was busy with computer games. But I don't know. He was giving typical male responses, like "Uh huh!...Yea...that's cool!..." Then I was like "We should hang sometime!" and he was like "I'm probably busy then"
EDIT: I have talked to him plenty. Trust me.
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Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2006 4:01 pm
I think he's being a stupid boy. He obviously cares for you. Maybe he's embarassed to show it? It will definitely take more than talking to find out. Hopefully little pain. I see that your own suggestion is to back up for a while and see how he reacts? Meaning if he seeks you out and makes advances, he definitely cares? I actively dislike this tactic. It generally confuses the male in question if he does care.
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Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2006 6:20 pm
uhh the void of ackwardness, this could be one of many things happening. The line between love and friendship is invisible hence it causes alot of problems. He might not be ready for a commitment to that kind of relationship. He (and for your sake I hope not) might have made what he thinks is a mistake in a moment of lonely weakness. And there is also the possibillity that he might not want to ruin your friendship by making it somthing more.
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Posted: Sat Feb 25, 2006 3:14 pm
Yeah, I think he does have feelings for you as well. Maybe he's afraid that taking it a step further will ruin the friendship?
Give him some time and space and see what happens. If he's really into you, he'd do something about it for sure.
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Posted: Sun Feb 26, 2006 10:02 am
humm... it sounds to me that this guy likes you but is too afraid to like you. He doesn't want to ruin your friendship and all that, or maybe he thinks that you don't feel the same way.
My advice, since you talk to him lots, ask him about this. Tell him that he seems distant to you and that you want to know the truth if he really does like you or not.
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Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 9:08 am
I agree with astronomy girl.
but! dont push him if you like him or anything. number one rule about guys, atleast in my opinion is to push them. They run away and hide, specially since this guy sounds like a scared little boy.
id give him sooomme spaceand back off a bit. But still tell him, you feel distant and what the hell? lol yea know? idk. he sounds very confused.
and if your not at all, id tell him what u wanted be straight forward, and if he acts ok great, if not...then there ya go.
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