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 Posted: Fri Jun 10, 2011 10:39 am
Arianah Xiporah Pretty easily. I take everything personally, but I try not to react most of the time and continue conversation as is because I know it's silly for me to be hurt. I especially hate 'constructive criticism.' THis is me to a "T". Except the constructive criticism. If it's actually constructive then I won't feel like s**t when you are done critiquing me. A good constructive critiquer can correct you and still allow you to maintain your dignity. Not with me. I still feel like it's a punch to the gut when I present something that I've put love and effort into and it's dismissed. I often try to point out flaws that I see in things I make so no one will have any thing negative to say about it, because I've already said it.
I do the exact same thing about my body and weight too.
I ALWAYS spoke up in my creative writing class if anyone had anything to say about one of my stories and defended myself. We were supposed to remain anonymous but you were free to claim your story if you wanted.
But yeah, I always felt like it was an attack, and half the time, they had no ******** clue what I was getting at in the first place, which made their criticism invalid in my eyes and I wanted to make sure the whole class knew why that opinion wasn't correct so they didn't go on a YEAH hate wagon criticism spree.
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Posted: Fri Jun 10, 2011 10:47 am
Constructive indicates it's good though. Anything less than "that's really awesome! The only way it could be better is 'Z' " is not constructive. LOL but I totally do the same thing. It's why I won't link myself singing because I hear all my mistakes and don't want anyone else to hear them.
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 5:10 am
it used to be pretty awful. i would wrap myself into whatever negative comment was said about me and try to make myself better, just because someone said some pitiful remark. now if someone says something mean to me, it rolls right off my back. i even defend myself! whoa!
unless whatever is said is from someone i really care about.. then it does kind of hurt and i feel bad. sometimes i trip too hard about being the best person i can be. so much so that when i ask my friends about like if i'm too loud or too this or too that, they'll be shocked that i even care at all-- like it's not even that noticeable to begin with.
so basically my feelings get hurt really easily only by myself and close friends, if i let it happen.
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 2:37 pm
Everyone and everything can hurt my feelings, even if they shouldn't. neutral
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 3:24 pm
It really depends on what is said, who said it, and how it's said. There are some little, tiny comments that sometimes can get me so depressed I'd rather go drive off a bridge than ever see the light of day again. Other times, the same tiny comment can make me laugh.
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 7:20 pm
Keito-san It's genuinely pretty easy to hurt my feelings, in spite of acting like a brick in most situations. I am an emotional person and I'm in no hurry to cover that up. wait what
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 8:57 pm
marzipancakes Keito-san It's genuinely pretty easy to hurt my feelings, in spite of acting like a brick in most situations. I am an emotional person and I'm in no hurry to cover that up. wait what
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Posted: Tue Jun 14, 2011 8:46 am
paper giraffes it's really hard to hurt my feelings because i have a hard time taking people seriously ever. but because it is so hard to hurt my feelings, i am a general c**t to everyone because i assume they are the same way. Ohhh, yeah, that IS an excuse! Cait - ah, gotcha. lol i guess. xD
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Posted: Tue Jun 14, 2011 12:13 pm
Pretty hard, considering I am a robot.
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Posted: Tue Jun 14, 2011 8:30 pm
kinda easily, although i try to hide it
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Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 2:40 am
I cry 24/7 almost. It's easy to make me cry, it doesn't even have to be mean. i cry when I'm angry lol i don't even know why. Embarrassed, upset, scared, confused, i cry. xD
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Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 11:49 am
I think the best way to describe me would be that I can get upset fairly easily, mostly from anger, and I cry kind of easily, yet not often. I dunno I'm weird. whee
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