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Alice Abernathy x1 Captain
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 Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2011 8:12 pm
Hey i got a question. Say you parents were devorced for round 5 years, and they both get remarried, and u stay with your mother all that time, and then your mother gets devorced and takes off to another state leaving you, 2 sisters, 5 brothers, and the whole family gets split up, 4 lives with the stepdad in another town, the other 3 lives aunt. whale you move to another town with your real dad....not being able to visit any of your brothers sisters, everything u knew and was used to is gone.... well the question is this. After 2 months of not seeing your those 7 family members would it be ok to cry about missing them knowing there may be a chance of never seeing them again or your mother?
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2011 10:47 pm
Yes, it would. It's sad, you lost everything you had. So it would be very plausible to cry about that. It's awful that such a thing still happens, but the fact that you couldn't go with at least one of them would be sad enough, because not only that, but you'd have the worry of never seeing them again on your mind. But with age, comes hope. Maybe when you turn 18 and move out, you can go find them and see them.
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x_Darkwaterz_x Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 2:06 pm
Yes dear, that would be an acceptable time to let out your frustrations, be it in raging, or through tears.
Just bear in mind, you may not have full control over your life at the moment, but that will not always be the case. Do what you can to keep in contact with them, be it through the internet, snail mail, whatever it takes, and you can reunite later when you are under your own authority. Just because things have been tough, does not mean they always will be.
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 2:15 pm
Of course is ok to cry and whoever says otherwise is wrong, because crying is a normal reaction to that kind of situation
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Alice Abernathy x1 Captain
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 3:50 pm
x_Darkwaterz_x Yes, it would. It's sad, you lost everything you had. So it would be very plausible to cry about that. It's awful that such a thing still happens, but the fact that you couldn't go with at least one of them would be sad enough, because not only that, but you'd have the worry of never seeing them again on your mind. But with age, comes hope. Maybe when you turn 18 and move out, you can go find them and see them. im 19 years old =/
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 3:55 pm
it sucks that the fact that my life, mother, brothers, sisters, grandma and cuzins are gone, and its hard to look for a job stuff, so i got no money, stuck in a new town, 19 years old. so this sucks so much
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Alice Abernathy x1 Captain
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x_Darkwaterz_x Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2011 9:13 pm
Oh, I see. I'm really sorry about that. Well, there's always the alternative. You could try to contact them through means of phone, email, letter. Maybe you guys could all plan and save for a trip to meet up together one day. :/ It sucks, but in life lots of things suck, however that's where the hard work and effort come in to make it better..... Usually. I don't know though, I'm still working on my own communication myself, so it's rather lacking, but anyways, it's still worth a try. ^^'' Solutions are always there, you just gotta find them.
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