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i've been, reading, i just havden't had the time to post. thank you, all of you.
david, i've read what you've wrote, several times, thank you for the adivce, all of it, i've been taking it all and using it to build myself up.
and cheiftain, thank you as well, you're a good guy (you all are) and you speak from experience, as everyone else has. your adivce is also that type that i will read over and over again, and eventually i'll post results.
gresley, thank you, i will, and please, you have a good life too, being a shoulder is a hard thing.
umbrae, i will try as best i can, currently ilive too far out of town to be too social, but i'm moving into town this summer, hopefully, and will be able to.
and rock, thanks for reminding me of what they had posted.
also, on a side note... my life has taken another turn, a good friend of mine has asked me out, and she has just as many problems as me... she is a great girl, but outwardly, she is just, unnatractive to me, i mean, to someone, she may be beautiful, but to me, who is oh so anxious, i can't date her... i mean, i feel bad saying no, but i'm moving next door to her next year, and we can help each other, and we can walk to school together too, so she can take from fat off. i mean i'm not saying she's ugly and that's it, i like her, i'm just, my anxiety is so strong. the only other reason i have for not doing it is becuase it has been a fight between her and the girl i like. the other girl thinks she is better with some other guy, and has criticized her for liking me, as i am... idk what i am to her, but just the way she says it, she trying to spare the other girl and not just save me, this has nothing to do with her, at least not in her mind...
david, i've read what you've wrote, several times, thank you for the adivce, all of it, i've been taking it all and using it to build myself up.
and cheiftain, thank you as well, you're a good guy (you all are) and you speak from experience, as everyone else has. your adivce is also that type that i will read over and over again, and eventually i'll post results.
gresley, thank you, i will, and please, you have a good life too, being a shoulder is a hard thing.
umbrae, i will try as best i can, currently ilive too far out of town to be too social, but i'm moving into town this summer, hopefully, and will be able to.
and rock, thanks for reminding me of what they had posted.
also, on a side note... my life has taken another turn, a good friend of mine has asked me out, and she has just as many problems as me... she is a great girl, but outwardly, she is just, unnatractive to me, i mean, to someone, she may be beautiful, but to me, who is oh so anxious, i can't date her... i mean, i feel bad saying no, but i'm moving next door to her next year, and we can help each other, and we can walk to school together too, so she can take from fat off. i mean i'm not saying she's ugly and that's it, i like her, i'm just, my anxiety is so strong. the only other reason i have for not doing it is becuase it has been a fight between her and the girl i like. the other girl thinks she is better with some other guy, and has criticized her for liking me, as i am... idk what i am to her, but just the way she says it, she trying to spare the other girl and not just save me, this has nothing to do with her, at least not in her mind...
Before you judge on appearance (and I feel you on that, I can't say I'd date someone who is morbidly obese or ugly as sin), you have to remember that the whole is greater than the sum of the parts. She might not have everything, but as a whole person, she is greater than her appearance. The converse holds true for "fake" people. They appear to have everything. Money, friends, clothes, looks, etc. But inside, they are probably a hollow shell. A hollow, bitter, caustic shell, with no real integrity.
