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 Posted: Thu Apr 28, 2011 4:12 pm
Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 Ok, I'm going to try to clear up the confusion. I did ask her to prom. That took alot out of me, because I'm a very shy and nervous person. I tend to never ask girls on dates or anything, and when I do I get really nervous to where I can barely ask them. What I'm afraid of is to ask her if she would like for me to talk to her mom about her going with me. I'll talk to the mom with no problem. Ok I get it. neutral Well I'm going to be rather masculine about this. Not to sound rude but, man up and ask that fine lady out! If you don't someone else will, then your chance will be blown. neutral But I do how nervousness and anxieties can affect a person. Just deep breath and ask her. So what if you stutter or stumble on your words. It may be even be a good thing cause you are having to work up so much courage to ask her out. wink So go get 'em tiger. That's a good way of putting it. Ok one more question, what if I send an email or something if I don't have the courage. You CAN but I don't see it being a good idea if you are trying to win her affection. wink Face to face has a higher chance of success! Alright, I'll ask her tomorrow biggrin . The worst that she can say is no about talking to her mom. I thought about what I would say if I talk to her mom, and I think it sounds pretty good. Thanks for the help. I'm glad that I'm not the only one that gets nervous or anxious about things. I'll keep ya posted and let you know what happens. You better keep us posted! heart and Good luck!
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Posted: Thu Apr 28, 2011 4:16 pm
tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 Ok, I'm going to try to clear up the confusion. I did ask her to prom. That took alot out of me, because I'm a very shy and nervous person. I tend to never ask girls on dates or anything, and when I do I get really nervous to where I can barely ask them. What I'm afraid of is to ask her if she would like for me to talk to her mom about her going with me. I'll talk to the mom with no problem. Ok I get it. neutral Well I'm going to be rather masculine about this. Not to sound rude but, man up and ask that fine lady out! If you don't someone else will, then your chance will be blown. neutral But I do how nervousness and anxieties can affect a person. Just deep breath and ask her. So what if you stutter or stumble on your words. It may be even be a good thing cause you are having to work up so much courage to ask her out. wink So go get 'em tiger. That's a good way of putting it. Ok one more question, what if I send an email or something if I don't have the courage. You CAN but I don't see it being a good idea if you are trying to win her affection. wink Face to face has a higher chance of success! Alright, I'll ask her tomorrow biggrin . The worst that she can say is no about talking to her mom. I thought about what I would say if I talk to her mom, and I think it sounds pretty good. Thanks for the help. I'm glad that I'm not the only one that gets nervous or anxious about things. I'll keep ya posted and let you know what happens. You better keep us posted! heart and Good luck! I will and thanks. If only my real life friends could've talk me into doing this, and gave me the support and courage to do this like you did.
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Posted: Thu Apr 28, 2011 4:17 pm
Oh and thanks to everyone else. Your support was much appreciated biggrin
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Posted: Thu Apr 28, 2011 4:21 pm
Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 That's a good way of putting it. Ok one more question, what if I send an email or something if I don't have the courage. You CAN but I don't see it being a good idea if you are trying to win her affection. wink Face to face has a higher chance of success! Alright, I'll ask her tomorrow biggrin . The worst that she can say is no about talking to her mom. I thought about what I would say if I talk to her mom, and I think it sounds pretty good. Thanks for the help. I'm glad that I'm not the only one that gets nervous or anxious about things. I'll keep ya posted and let you know what happens. You better keep us posted! heart and Good luck! I will and thanks. If only my real life friends could've talk me into doing this, and gave me the support and courage to do this like you did. I'm alot older than your age group. And well, I was the same way back in high school. So I hardly did anything like ask people out or go to parties. So in a chit chat like this I tend to try to encourage people to take the chance and get their knees scraped.
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Posted: Thu Apr 28, 2011 4:27 pm
tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 That's a good way of putting it. Ok one more question, what if I send an email or something if I don't have the courage. You CAN but I don't see it being a good idea if you are trying to win her affection. wink Face to face has a higher chance of success! Alright, I'll ask her tomorrow biggrin . The worst that she can say is no about talking to her mom. I thought about what I would say if I talk to her mom, and I think it sounds pretty good. Thanks for the help. I'm glad that I'm not the only one that gets nervous or anxious about things. I'll keep ya posted and let you know what happens. You better keep us posted! heart and Good luck! I will and thanks. If only my real life friends could've talk me into doing this, and gave me the support and courage to do this like you did. I'm alot older than your age group. And well, I was the same way back in high school. So I hardly did anything like ask people out or go to parties. So in a chit chat like this I tend to try to encourage people to take the chance and get their knees scraped. Not by that much, only a few years. I've been to parties, and when I go and do things, I let things go and I'm the person that I should be. Idk, I think the only reason I'm like that in high school is because of all the drama and everything else, it's not worth it. I think for now on I'm going to encourage people to do the things I'm afraid of doing.
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:23 pm
tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 That's a good way of putting it. Ok one more question, what if I send an email or something if I don't have the courage. You CAN but I don't see it being a good idea if you are trying to win her affection. wink Face to face has a higher chance of success! Alright, I'll ask her tomorrow biggrin . The worst that she can say is no about talking to her mom. I thought about what I would say if I talk to her mom, and I think it sounds pretty good. Thanks for the help. I'm glad that I'm not the only one that gets nervous or anxious about things. I'll keep ya posted and let you know what happens. You better keep us posted! heart and Good luck! I will and thanks. If only my real life friends could've talk me into doing this, and gave me the support and courage to do this like you did. I'm alot older than your age group. And well, I was the same way back in high school. So I hardly did anything like ask people out or go to parties. So in a chit chat like this I tend to try to encourage people to take the chance and get their knees scraped. Well I asked her if she wanted me to talk to her mom, but it didn't go as planned. She said that she doesn't think it would help any because her mom is the type that "sticks to her guns". She also said that there are some family tension between them so it wouldn't be a good idea.
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:46 pm
Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 Alright, I'll ask her tomorrow biggrin . The worst that she can say is no about talking to her mom. I thought about what I would say if I talk to her mom, and I think it sounds pretty good. Thanks for the help. I'm glad that I'm not the only one that gets nervous or anxious about things. I'll keep ya posted and let you know what happens. You better keep us posted! heart and Good luck! I will and thanks. If only my real life friends could've talk me into doing this, and gave me the support and courage to do this like you did. I'm alot older than your age group. And well, I was the same way back in high school. So I hardly did anything like ask people out or go to parties. So in a chit chat like this I tend to try to encourage people to take the chance and get their knees scraped. Well I asked her if she wanted me to talk to her mom, but it didn't go as planned. She said that she doesn't think it would help any because her mom is the type that "sticks to her guns". She also said that there are some family tension between them so it wouldn't be a good idea. Well the good part is you asked her out. sweatdrop Even it was bad news at least you pulled courage and stepped up out of your anxieties
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:48 pm
tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 tina138 Hobo_Hunter_1 Alright, I'll ask her tomorrow biggrin . The worst that she can say is no about talking to her mom. I thought about what I would say if I talk to her mom, and I think it sounds pretty good. Thanks for the help. I'm glad that I'm not the only one that gets nervous or anxious about things. I'll keep ya posted and let you know what happens. You better keep us posted! heart and Good luck! I will and thanks. If only my real life friends could've talk me into doing this, and gave me the support and courage to do this like you did. I'm alot older than your age group. And well, I was the same way back in high school. So I hardly did anything like ask people out or go to parties. So in a chit chat like this I tend to try to encourage people to take the chance and get their knees scraped. Well I asked her if she wanted me to talk to her mom, but it didn't go as planned. She said that she doesn't think it would help any because her mom is the type that "sticks to her guns". She also said that there are some family tension between them so it wouldn't be a good idea. Well the good part is you asked her out. sweatdrop Even it was bad news at least you pulled courage and stepped up out of your anxieties Yeah I was glad I did. It happens to the best of us.
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