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 Posted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 4:15 am
Well, whenI realised I might be bi, I was really scared and I didn't know what to do, or wh to talk to about it. One of my friends on a different forum who I have met and talk to on msn as well noticed one of my posts on the forum was really depressing and came on msn and asked if I was OK and if I wanted to talk. I told him I wasn't OK, but I would be but didn't know who to talk to. He offered to talk about what ever it was that was bothering me but I felt really bad cos I realised that I had to talk to my best friend first and he said that was cool and gave a shouder to cry on for a little while. It was about fiv hours before my best friend came online and it took me ages to tell her but she was really worried and so was her boyfriend who was also on msn to me. I finally told her and she was like "Did you really think I'd mind?" and she sent me a hug and made me feel better. And then I told her boyfriend and now 6 people know, they're all really close and have been really good about it. But I odn't wanna tell my mum cos I think she'll flip. Whenever we watch something, or she says something about gay people and laughs, I just look at her and say "what do you have against gay people?!" And she'll always say "nothing" but I odn't know...I just think she'll flip...but she does know I've never wanted to have my own kids...wanted to adopt!!
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Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 4:49 pm
i was in an arguement with a friend at school and we were argueing about the fact that i was wiccan as well and i just yelled out "you know what else you'll never accept about me? I'M BI!" and after that there was really no point in staying in the closet....now...my parents still have yet to find out though...
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Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 5:37 pm
I just straight up told all of my friends from highschool (most of my college friends don't know yet). Everyone that is really close to me knows, with the exception of my mother and my roommate sweatdrop but my mother is biphobic (literally, she believes that there's no such thing, only gay and straight...so she'll never find out until she accepts bisexuality itself) and my roommate will figure it out eventually...
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Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 7:44 pm
Hmm. Apparently I haven't posted in here yet so...
I came out to my friends first. They were all very cool with my bi-ness, and they had all seen it coming (apparently they talked about it behind my back before I told anyone). I had a very religious friend who I didn't want to tell at first, but someone else told her, and she seems to be the person who's most cool with it.
The first family member I told was my dad. It was in the car waiting for my brother to get out of hebrew school. He wasn't mad, he tried to convince me it was a phase. I went along with it just because I don't think he'll ever really believe me, and he hasn't said a single word about it since. To be fair, neither have I.
I didn't really want to tell my mom, but I decided to when my friend invited me to a Gay Pride parade in Boston, and I needed her approval. She wouldn't let me go (grr, I wish I'd never said anything. I knew she wouldn't agree) but she said she didn't have a problem with it. She just...hasn't acted normally since (this was 4 months ago).
I still haven't told my brother (he would just be like "I knew it!" and then be mean to me) or my extended family (they scare me). Probably won't for a while.
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