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nooloo4000

PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 9:11 pm


how do i bring her back to Christ
shes a little agnostic

also she lost her virginity a while ago and feels guilty about it how do i comfort her and what exactly do i tell her i want whats best for her
and she wants the same the relationship is good but i want her to ge back with christ and become saved the only problem is that i dont want to come off like those bible thumpers and you know what im talking about they always hand things wrong
PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 9:42 pm


My suggestion to you appears simple, but a little complex at the same time.

The best thing to do is to just be there for her. Live your life as a sacrifice for the Lord, and let her bare witness to the example you set. When talking about issues, such as the few you've described, encourage her with scripture. She's done wrong and she's convicted of that in her heart - the next step is to show and give her examples of redemption and grace.

That's how I typically evangelize.

Give it time, never press, don't judge, never give up.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 12, 2011 8:03 am


You can do nothing to bring her back, only be there for her when she's feeling confused. You have to let her choose, because, you know, it's her life after all.

Be a good advise-giving friend :3
PostPosted: Tue Apr 12, 2011 12:35 pm


I agree with The_Servant_Grey. The best thing you can do is live your life as Jesus would live. Also I think you should pray for her. God always has an answer for everything. I also think you should look to the bible, probably in Isaiah, and maybe Acts to name a few. Whenever you need help, always trust in God.

Hope this helps!

Catherine Elise


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 15, 2011 5:32 pm


The best way is just to live as an example. Don't be harsh or judge, just let God's love be shown through you. If you go to a Youth Group or Church you can invite her, just make sure she doesn't feel uncomfortable.
PostPosted: Sat Apr 16, 2011 11:03 pm


thanks guys

nooloo4000

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