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I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. He's been horny for a few days, and his member won't go down. Any advice? I'm trying to get him to calm down so he won't be in pain.

Edit: I hope this is in the right place. I didn't know where to put this thread when I asked. sweatdrop

I believe he has been masturbating.

I'm trying to get him to play a video game that isn't sexy. I could see if he can watch a movie. ^^ I'm trying to get his mind off of sexual stuff.

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He's tried playing video games to the point that it bores him to get his mind off of sexual stuff, but it's not helping. It's still hard and he's still horny. Even if he's not thinking about sex.

I'm sorry if I'm not explaining it well. crying I'm trying hard to make him feel comfortable. I'm trying to help. I'm trying to get him in the guild.

Edit Edit:

Also could this be a form of Sexual Tension?

I'm...the boyfriend. *raises hand* v.v No medicine was involved, no drugs...it doesn't make much sense. x.x I'd love to see a doctor about this, but unfortunately... A) No money. B) With my medical conditions I'm not allowed to drive. C) My family, whom I'm still living with...don't really like to help me that much. ._.;;

That means no ride, no help in paying, no doctor. It's incredibly frustrating. And since this started I've been experiencing the worst headaches. Well, worse than usual. I've been having frequent headaches almost all my life, and they got a little worse when I began having seizures back in 2006, but this is just horrible. x.x This is going on 3 or 4 days now. ._.;

There's a lot that's wrong with me mentally and physically. I've been mentally abused all my life, I've been struck on more than one occasion, and I've hardly received any form of affection, at least offline. No friends growing up, all kinds of unpleasant stuff. x.x I was on anti-depressants, but after I began having seizures I began developing a variety of problems aside from simple depression. I was prescribed bi-polar medication, seizure medication, etc. I've been on these medications for years, at times the dosage has been upped, but the only side effect I ever encountered was severe drowsiness to the point I'd fall asleep really easily without even meaning to. sweatdrop

As for my girlfriend, well...I'm insane about her. lol. Not sure if that's a good term, but I do love her. ^^ Umm, we were talking about various...things we'd like to do and try out in the future earlier this week. We...were both pretty horny and we want to hold each other so badly that it kind of hurts. v.v We'd like to kiss, and...more. Well, some of the stuff we were talking about, and some of the stuff we were saying...I think it's needless to say but I got pretty hard. v.v;;;;

I had been horny for days before that, but that's when this erection first started. Having it hard this long, with as...b-big as it is (god this is embarassing to talk about! crying ) is really painful. I have tried everything I could think of from masturbation to thinking non-sexual things and even doing non-sexual things such as watching educational television, playing games and doing the most boring things I could think of in these games regardless of how much I LOVE video games...and NOTHING seems to work. I've tried what has been suggested as well. I'm...at a loss.

I had a nice, long rest that I woke up from just a few hours ago. I ate a nice meal, and I feel fine. I'm not horny anymore, there's nothing sexual on my mind, and yet it's still hard. I'm honestly too embarassed about this to walk around outside. It sticks out so bad and it's impossible for me to hide it. It hurts. v.v I'm sorry for rambling on, but I wanted to give any information I could that might help explain the situation. sweatdrop I'm going to try & relax...I'm feeling pretty frustrated right now. x.x

That story made me laugh so hard. I really felt for the guy.

I'm 24 years old by the way. Been having seizures for around 5 years now. Might be going on 6, I can't remember very well. x.x I'm riddled with mental & physical health problems unfortunately. I have no idea why, but I have been so horny this past week that I'm actually worried. On top of that, this stupid thing of mine won't go down. -_- I'm not one of those guys that thinks about sex all the damn time so this is sooooooooo frustrating for me. I'm a good, nice guy that loves my girlfriend deeply. I don't want her to think I'm some perverted guy that only wants her for sex. v.v So this is really embarassing and it hurts not just physically, but emotionally as well.

I actually tried something my girlfriend suggested last night. I used ice (made a makeshift icepack of sorts) and it seems to have helped lessen the 'swelling' some. It still hurts really bad, but I think I just need to keep at that and it might help bring it back to normal. Not sure when the pain will go away, but once it's back to normal it should get better I think. sweatdrop I just wish I understood why I've been feeling like this and why this had to happen. x.x

Did the ice pack help? (since it's a couple days later now)

If it did, I highly recommend going to see a doctor if you feel comfortable going out in public now. 3nodding They'd be able to best help you.

You're 24, so you don't need to be with your parents to go see a doctor (although from the sound of it, there's a reason why you need your mom with you). That being said, if you can't get your parents to help you, what about asking a friend or another trusted adult to take you? smile

Ah that's right, that makes sense. Sorry for forgetting. redface

Is there an organization or a resource in your community who could maybe pick you up and take you to where you need to go? Or is there any public transit near where you live that you could take?