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 Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 9:12 pm
Well, My girlfriend want a baby from me I can't think of thing what have I tell her Im not ready to be father without marry my gf...
What do I tell her? T^T
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 9:14 pm
Haseo Hitsome Well, My girlfriend want a baby from me I can't think of thing what have I tell her Im not ready to be father without marry my gf... What do I tell her? T^T tell her exactly how you feel about something like this. it's important. if she loves and wants to be with you she will understand and wait.
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 9:19 pm
Crimson Remedy Haseo Hitsome Well, My girlfriend want a baby from me I can't think of thing what have I tell her Im not ready to be father without marry my gf... What do I tell her? T^T tell her exactly how you feel about something like this. it's important. if she loves and wants to be with you she will understand and wait. I second this.
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 9:20 pm
Well Im planning to marry her in the days then later she shows up at my home and she says she want a baby from me.. I messed my plan up >.< I can't think what have I tell her without marry her.
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 9:32 pm
Alright, first off, your girlfriend needs to understand that kids should come in a few years after marriage, when everything is stable in life. What prompted her to suddenly want a baby, anyway? (Don't answer that if it's a personal question. It was meant to be rhetorical anyway)
You can tell her that you think you two should wait a few years before you factor in children. You could still surprise her with the ring, which would, aside from it's obvious purpose, almost act as a physical promise that you do want kids and will deliver on your promise. (Because it is possible that she may take your refusal of her demand as you saying "Kids? Oh HELL no!").
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 9:32 pm
Tell her you're not ready.
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 9:35 pm
tell me how long youve been together.
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 10:03 pm
claru gardeford tell me how long youve been together. 2 and half years
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 10:24 pm
Haseo Hitsome claru gardeford tell me how long youve been together. 2 and half years get married first bro, how old are you?
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 10:38 pm
jedimastersonic Haseo Hitsome claru gardeford tell me how long youve been together. 2 and half years get married first bro, how old are you? 24
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 10:40 pm
Haseo Hitsome jedimastersonic Haseo Hitsome claru gardeford tell me how long youve been together. 2 and half years get married first bro, how old are you? 24 well ask her to marry you if thats what you were gonna do
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 11:10 pm
Im the same age and ive got 2 kids myself and im not married
so heres what i say wait to have kids 24 is too young in life
if your gf doesnt listen about not being ready you need to be with someone who does sorry if thats not what you wanna hear
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Posted: Thu Mar 10, 2011 6:06 am
If you want to marry her, please go ahead. But be clear about the fact that you don't want to have kids right away. If you want to have them when you get older, say that too. Girls can freak out if their boyfriend has no wish of having childs at all.
When she does not take that well, please take caution when having sex, because women can get very tricky when they really want to have a baby, though from what I hear I think your girlfriend isn't the obsessive baby maniac, so you probably be fine.
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Posted: Fri Mar 11, 2011 6:11 pm
I agree with the get married first idea. You also need to make sure that you are financially stable enough to support a kid. tell her its ridiculous how much it really costs compared to what you'd think it would be like. My mother has 7 kids, and she wasn't really ready for it, and shes in her early 40's
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