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 Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 4:11 pm
Okay, so I know a lot of people say sex should only be with someone you love or something like that. But, I don't really think that way anymore. Although it seems everytime I have sex with someone and it is just a hook up I tend to get attached to them. Normally I realize this after they already get a boyfriend or something. Or sometimes they just don't feel same way.
Is there anything I can do about it? Is it just how I am and I won't change?
Also, reason I don't really date much and hook up first instead is because, I sorta lost hope in relationships. Year back I was with on and off relationship with a girl I loved for 3 years and it just seemed to have done major damage to me. So, I can't seem to like have faith in relationships anymore. Mostly because, my age since I am 17 and just think girls and guys at that age are going through to much for anything to work.
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 6:59 pm
Kojima Shiro Is there anything I can do about it? Is it just how I am and I won't change? Tough to say. Some people always get attached from sex, others never do, others do initially but stop when they get more experience, etc. Kojima Shiro Also, reason I don't really date much and hook up first instead is because, I sorta lost hope in relationships. Year back I was with on and off relationship with a girl I loved for 3 years and it just seemed to have done major damage to me. So, I can't seem to like have faith in relationships anymore. Mostly because, my age since I am 17 and just think girls and guys at that age are going through to much for anything to work. It's ok if you don't feel ready for a relationship because you're not healed from your last one or because you're too busy with other things. But there's no sense in losing hope for relationships altogether, especially just because of one bad experience and especially when you're so young. Almost all of us will have at least one bad romantic experience in our life.
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 7:27 pm
I see. Thank you. Most that is reassuring.
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 9:58 pm
LorienLlewellyn Kojima Shiro Is there anything I can do about it? Is it just how I am and I won't change? Tough to say. Some people always get attached from sex, others never do, others do initially but stop when they get more experience, etc. Kojima Shiro Also, reason I don't really date much and hook up first instead is because, I sorta lost hope in relationships. Year back I was with on and off relationship with a girl I loved for 3 years and it just seemed to have done major damage to me. So, I can't seem to like have faith in relationships anymore. Mostly because, my age since I am 17 and just think girls and guys at that age are going through to much for anything to work. It's ok if you don't feel ready for a relationship because you're not healed from your last one or because you're too busy with other things. But there's no sense in losing hope for relationships altogether, especially just because of one bad experience and especially when you're so young. Almost all of us will have at least one bad romantic experience in our life. Seconded. smile Plus it's a good idea to not make generalizations about large groups of people - it's not fair, and it's usually not accurate either. Yeah a lot of teen relationships don't last, but there are lots of people who had successful relationships in their teens, or who started a relationship as a teenager and had it carry into adulthood. As Lorien said, your time will come if/when you feel ready for another one again. 3nodding
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