Soooooo. My cousin (we'll go with letters here), D, has this girlfriend, N. She's one of those people that just kinda talk and don't care who they offend. So she got into a little tussle on FB with our other cousin, S. Now S and her little sister have a war going on against D&N. Which is just kind of like, whatever. It's none of my business. UNTIL D's mom calls me up and tells me that anyone caught talking to S is being disowned. That pissed me off right quick because NO ONE has the right to tell me who I can and can't talk to. But most especially someone who NEVER bothers with me. I don't get phone calls or cards on my birthday or christmas from almost ANYONE on my father's side of the family. Only my grandfather (because his wife remembers) and a few cousins. So for someone who never puts in any effort to be a part of my life to tell me what to do, especially when this drama has nothing to do with me really set me off. I don't start trouble with anyone, I am on speaking terms with everyone. If someone has a problem, I insist we talk it out. I'm probably the most peaceful person in my family. Even though it shouldn't, this whole thing upsets me. I think it's probably because of everything else that is going on in my life right now, I've been really sensitive lately.