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 Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 12:15 pm
There really shouldn't be a chance, but I'm paranoid...
Me and Timo were having sex (I've understood that is how babies are made...) and it was our first time. We had been talking about kids, mostly as a joke since we don't want them now (c'mon, we don't even know each other that well yet, and we've only been together/known each other for some two or three months, I'm still studying and we live in different cities). We even had these crazy babynames going on.
And then the condom broke, literally, into pieces... We have no idea how and why, since it's not like we were using one for the first time in our lives and well, we're both adults, we know what to do with them and how to do it right. Well, atleast our first time was memorable...
Panic arises, I drink parsley/ginger I don't know what the hell to call it, you know, you quickly boil them and drink straight with a dash of lemon, since parsley and ginger are known to prevent pregnancy, we get the morning-after pill the next morning, I take large amounts of Vitamin C and eat half-raw pineapple. I do everything modern medicine and nature has to offer to me. I bled a bit on Wednesday night already, which might be because of the parsley or because of the fact that my periods were close anyway...
And I get my periods (before that I do bleed, but in small amounts a few times a day), and they're long as the hunger year. Usually my periods are about 4 days, these were almost a week or maybe even over, and they seemed really heavy.
Then after this I get a huge ******** killer headache and nausea after this (might be because of the morning-after pill, since I've been off chemical bc for over a year and those have such high levels of estrogen). I think it was a migraine and stress-related, since I had a really busy first three days of the week. And I ate pills like candy, since nothing seemed to make it go away... Yesterday and today went well, no headache and only slight nausea, which might be because I've been mostly living of clementines for the past few days.
And here I am still paranoid over things... So please ladies, knock some sense into me?
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 12:26 pm
If I was you I'd just go to the store and get a pregnancy test. Then you won't have to worry anymore.
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 12:58 pm
You took a morning-after pill, so you should be fine. I do think taking a pregnancy test would be a good idea though, just so you can have a much more solid answer.
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 2:37 pm
Getting the morning-after pill was pain enough, since you have to queue and ask for them from the counter... I got such a talking to from the pharmacy-lady and all this "You should get on the pill" bullshit**, while I was trying to tell her that we were actually being reasonable adults with this but something just went wrong. So I just tried to nod in the right places and get the hell out from there. I can't even imagine how much people would stare at me if I bought a pregnancy test... Ok, I can do that in any town that is not this little wee town of mine, but I still think that I should see until my next periods... If they're a no-show, I'll get worried.
I was joking about this whole pregnancy thing with my mom (I haven't told her the whole story though) and she's a medical professional, and after a slight consulting (You've got your periods and you haven't got any of these symptoms right? *lists four* Ok, you're not pregnant) I'm pretty sure I'm not pregnant, just paranoid since I don't want to risk school or anything at this point of my life. I want to have a solid hippie-foundation to make my babies.
**) I don't like the pill since it totally makes me crazy in the head. I mean now that I've been without them for a while, everything (sexwise) has been so much better. And my psychobitch ratings have gone down A LOT.
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 3:36 pm
It's probably too soon for a pregnancy test anyway.
Unless this was weeks ago.
But with everything you did I seriously doubt you're pregnant.
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 2:26 pm
You should complain to the pharmacy. They shouldn't make you feel bad about yourself for trying to not get pregnant. And ******** whoever stares at you. Buy a pregnancy test so you can know for sure and deal with it regardless of whether you're pregnant or not. If you'd rather not get stared at and not know then that's just silly.
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 3:56 pm
Undecidability You took a morning-after pill, so you should be fine. I do think taking a pregnancy test would be a good idea though, just so you can have a much more solid answer.
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