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 Posted: Fri Nov 12, 2010 11:14 pm
I was molested.Almost raped in fact.Heres my story.
I was eight and my grandpa had to pick me up after school since my mom was busy at work.I was just in 3rd grade and I didn't know much about sex or where babies come from.But it always seemed to happen when my grandma and little sister were somewhere else.He would take me to his house and it happened a couple times before and i knew it was coming but this time was just wrong.We we got to his door he got out his key to unlock it and some old lady was complimenting me.I looked at her with a smile even though i wanted to scream HELP ME!When we got inside i sat at the table doing my homework.I thought it wouldnt happen this time but it had.He told me"common here"but i wasnt stupid.I shook my head but he started kissing my neck.I got scared and told him"Im scared." but he mistook this and said "dont worry i wont tell anyone."he sat me on his lap and put his hand in my shorts and my underwear.He violated me.
Im 12 now almost 13 on Jan 20 and it still haunts me.And every summer since i moved to Cali from Germany he and my grandma would watch me and my sister but now i convinced my mom to let me stay home and watch my sister.Ever since what happend to be i am trying my hardest to keep my little sister away from him.I even call her over to play with me since shes 8 know.We draw and just play around like any sisters would.Im very protective of her and i even told her to only trust women as far as i know.I still have nightmares about it.
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Posted: Sat Nov 13, 2010 5:03 am
*hugs* I'm sorry, It'll probably take an extremely long time to trust men again.
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Posted: Sat Nov 13, 2010 8:50 am
I'm sorry to hear that,
but if it still bothers you, I would suggest seeking therapy.
As far as your sister goes... It's unhealthy to tell her to only trust women. Women can be rapists too, you know! Try not to influence that kind of fear in her.
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Posted: Sat Nov 13, 2010 9:13 am
R a a w i y a
I'm sorry to hear that,
but if it still bothers you, I would suggest seeking therapy.
As far as your sister goes... It's unhealthy to tell her to only trust women. Women can be rapists too, you know! Try not to influence that kind of fear in her. yeah i kinda figured that out after awhile im trying my hardest to make sure she knows whats right and wrong and the farthest shes gone is Right:play with toys properly Wrong:do not throw toys yeah shes a slow learner
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Posted: Sat Nov 13, 2010 10:26 am
wow..
you sound just like me..
My grandfather did the same thing during my childhood..
Even with the little sister part ( a year or two ago I finally told my sister what had happened to me & asked her if she was ever molested. She told me no. So I'm glad )
I'm almost 20 & it still bothers me.
I have nightmares about my grandfathers house all the time.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
It's really awful.
Maybe some day.. we can be strong enough to tell our parents.
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Posted: Sat Nov 13, 2010 2:11 pm
InnocentLies101 yeah i kinda figured that out after awhile im trying my hardest to make sure she knows whats right and wrong and the farthest shes gone is Right:play with toys properly Wrong:do not throw toys yeah shes a slow learner
It's good that you care so much about your sister,
But again, don't try to influence certain ideas into her head based on your own experience. I mean, obviously, continue to protect her, but don't make large generalizations.
They quite literally tear you apart in the end.
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Posted: Sun Nov 14, 2010 12:15 am
i am so sorry to hear D: omg thats horrible!, you have to tell them what he did to you, right? or else god forbid what he did to u will happen to your little sis, you should really tell your grandma about it! or your parents, i hope u did, wish you the best of luck! :[
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Posted: Sun Nov 14, 2010 7:58 am
Cool_Peaches88 i am so sorry to hear D: omg thats horrible!, you have to tell them what he did to you, right? or else god forbid what he did to u will happen to your little sis, you should really tell your grandma about it! or your parents, i hope u did, wish you the best of luck! :[ i could never do that based on my age kids like me who were molested would be scared to tell.im trying to make sure it does not happen to my lil sister
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Posted: Sun Nov 14, 2010 8:02 am
I wouldn't tell her to only trust women, I would tel her to be cautious around anyone, especially your grandpa.
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