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I believe it's wrong if you're in a committed relationship with someone else already. If you have a boyfriend, and you want to try cybering, you can try it with him.

If you have the urge to cyber with strangers, then do your boyfriend a favor and break up with him first. That saves him and you from getting more hurt than necessary.

And remember, no cybering is allowed on Gaia. wink *just teasing*

As Nikolita said I think it's wrong to do it if you're in a relationship. It may not be physical cheating but it is psycological cheating.

If you're single or doing it with a partner then I don't see the harm with it. Just like anything sexual it's just a matter of personal opinion.

Honestly, I have no clue why cybering gets such a bad rap, but "hooking up" with someone you just met at a bar doesn't. It's just ridiculous.

Don't give out your personal information. That's a given. Make up a first name you like and just use that if people ask.

If you are in a relationship, talk to your significant other first. Some people are fine with it and see it as pretty much the same thing as looking at porn. Others think it's cheating (and some even think looking at porn is cheating). So honestly, you need to talk with your bf and figure out where he stands.

I really don't see anything wrong with cybering. It can be fun, it's miles safer than "hooking up," it's really just like combining RP (of which there is plenty on this site) with a romance novel.

Brad knows I do it and he said he was fine with it. I accept the fact he looks at tons of porn, so he found it fair.

I guess, in my opinion, I don't find it cheating because I don't know who this person is, I'm not getting involved with them, and I'm playing as someone else. To me, as long as I know I love the person I'm with, I don't see it any different than picking up a playboy.

I'd love to do it with Brad, had he the access to the wire. It's a rarity if I even get an email from him. And besides...I find his grammar terrifying and I think I'd be turned off if I were to read what he would consider a storyline. xp

I like writing them, but they do little to relieve me. Oddly though, I like to read other's. I guess there's a thrill in partially not knowing the plot of the story.

When I was younger there were so many things I said I would never do. I'll never masterbate... I masterbate daily biggrin I will never cyber... well. I do. I've only ever cybered with two people. I still ocassionally cyber with the first girl I ever did with. But not when either have a gf. And a friend of mine. I don't like randomly choosing a person and cybering with them. It's strange to me. but I do like to.