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 Posted: Thu Nov 11, 2010 6:08 pm
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Or I don't know.
To the point that she claims that all my styles, my hobbies, favorite foods, colors,etc are hers first and all that jazz, and I was the one copying her. She even thinks she deserves my bf more than me, stole my best friend, and trying to get closer to all my buddies.
It's like she wants to erase my existence. Sorry. Just ranting.
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Posted: Sat Dec 04, 2010 9:58 am
That... would creep me the hell out. O-o
I have a friend that used to copy some of the things I did, but never to that extreme...
Yikes!
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Bloody-Melons Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 9:07 pm
I know how you feel ad lsten if they go to her side forget about them they and her are not worth it I let go
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Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2010 11:13 pm
I used to have a friend who (because she had more money than me) would go out and buy something that she knew I was saving up for, for herself... and then when around behind my back telling everyone I was coping her when I was finally able to buy them. It was really annoying. And I understand how you feel. Best thing to do is call her out on it and tell her loudly to stop coping you. If your friends take her side instead of yours (or she basically steals your friends) then count yourself lucky that you eventually found out what kind of friends they really are in the first place.
I know that might sound a bit harsh... but when you find friends who will stick with you no matter what... you will be glad. As for the girl wanting to be you or whatever... I would just keep reminding her in public to stop coping you and try not to let her get under your skin too bad.
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Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2010 7:07 pm
A lot of this happens in real life, she's really moreso crying out for some kind of attention and is envious of the sort of attention you obtain.
But let me take things a bit further:
If your friends are low and shallow enough to take her side when they know you better, then drop them all...
Friendship has a standard:
IRL i have three 'friends', J, K, & M, J i am dating, K is my buddy, and M is a platonic pal of mine who hangs out with me a lot. however they are a cut above the common use of the word friend
Let me put ti this way:
J, K & M would all give their lives to protect a friend...and i'd do the same.
---if these "friends" dont meet that standard...then they are 'acquaintances', or rather 'people you know'
as for the mimic...Simple advice, hard to do but still simple:
Ignore her.
She wants to be you, but to dont want her to be, so ignore her and she'll likely 'mimic' that and completely 'forget' about mimicking you...
in the worst case she'll just act like you dont exist, and these 'friends' will show their colors by following suit.
there's really not that many options other than ignoring or calling it...and both have severe downsides that outweigh the good, thus i apologize that i'm not much help
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Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2010 9:55 pm
Aguy91811 A lot of this happens in real life, she's really moreso crying out for some kind of attention and is envious of the sort of attention you obtain. But let me take things a bit further: If your friends are low and shallow enough to take her side when they know you better, then drop them all... Friendship has a standard: IRL i have three 'friends', J, K, & M, J i am dating, K is my buddy, and M is a platonic pal of mine who hangs out with me a lot. however they are a cut above the common use of the word friend Let me put ti this way: J, K & M would all give their lives to protect a friend...and i'd do the same. ---if these "friends" dont meet that standard...then they are 'acquaintances', or rather 'people you know' as for the mimic...Simple advice, hard to do but still simple: Ignore her. She wants to be you, but to dont want her to be, so ignore her and she'll likely 'mimic' that and completely 'forget' about mimicking you... in the worst case she'll just act like you dont exist, and these 'friends' will show their colors by following suit. there's really not that many options other than ignoring or calling it...and both have severe downsides that outweigh the good, thus i apologize that i'm not much help Very good advice. 3nodding
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