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 Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2010 7:11 pm
And I bawled like a baby.
Like, why doesn't anyone tell me how much of a disgusting mess I am. I've ballooned up, I look permanetly sick and/or sleep deprived, and just unappealing. AND THEN I WONDER WHY I'M SINGLE.
And it sucks because I've been lacking motivation for any change whatsoever due to my overwhelming stress.
I don't know what to do anymore, guys.
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2010 7:14 pm
Athena, you're a strikingly beautiful woman. You need to get your eyes checked if you feel that you are ugly in the slightest. Sure, sometimes we all have bad pictures, but Athena, my god, you are one of the prettiest people here.
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2010 7:23 pm
I find that going for a run clears my head.
Then I have an asthma attack so I don't run.
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2010 7:27 pm
Take a step back, and stop.
Breathe.
Calm down.
Stress will always be around, are you just going to be like that and take it?
No, don't, 'cause an emotion is nothing compared to a full-fleshed human being (unless you're a ******** psychologist).
You're beautiful and have your own adorable quirks.
It's hard as a d**k, but embrace them man.
One day you'll realize when you keep doing this (stressing out, then worrying about your looks/what you're perceived as), you'll get sick and tired of it, and you'll end up giving it up and accepting you for you.
Why not jump start it now? <3
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2010 7:37 pm
Tanyarbles Take a step back, and stop.
Breathe.
Calm down.
Stress will always be around, are you just going to be like that and take it?
No, don't, 'cause an emotion is nothing compared to a full-fleshed human being (unless you're a ******** psychologist).
You're beautiful and have your own adorable quirks.
It's hard as a d**k, but embrace them man.
One day you'll realize when you keep doing this (stressing out, then worrying about your looks/what you're perceived as), you'll get sick and tired of it, and you'll end up giving it up and accepting you for you.
Why not jump start it now? <3 Because s**t isn't just easy like that. Its much easier to say than do. @Neu: I appreciate your comment, ty<3, but I honestly cannot say I can agree with you. Edge: I literally awwed then laughed.
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Posted: Thu Oct 28, 2010 10:57 am
I know how you feel. One of the pictures I took this weekend was of me and a friend (and a pony) and I looked at it and was like OMG WHY IS MY FACE SO FAT I HOPE NO ONE NOTICES THIS PICTURE DDDDDDDDDD;
And I used to feel like this a lot. But slowly, you realize that no one really pays attention to the things that you're insecure about it. I know it doesn't feel that way, but you just have to pretend that you're happy with the way you look. IT'S HARD, I KNOW. And most of the time, yeah, I'm just pretending that I don't feel like a fat load. But it helps to realize that when people think of you, they're not just going to think FAT. Your appearance aren't your own defining qualities.
I don't know if that makes any sense but my point is that even though it's hard to stop focusing on your flaws, you're probably the only one doing so. Also I think you're gorgeous. <3
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Posted: Thu Oct 28, 2010 11:37 am
Tanyarbles
You're beautiful and have your own adorable quirks.
It's hard as a d**k, but embrace them man.
One day you'll realize when you keep doing this (stressing out, then worrying about your looks/what you're perceived as), you'll get sick and tired of it, and you'll end up giving it up and accepting you for you.
I agree with this completely. Its cheesy as hell, but everyone is beautiful in their own unique way. And you have a kind of beauty that no one else will ever have.
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Posted: Thu Oct 28, 2010 12:38 pm
I know what you are talking about. There were times when I would think that some pictures my friends kept SPECIFICALLY because the contrast of ugly and pretty made them look better =| that was back when I was paranoid.
But then I saw my gorgeous friend freak out about a picture where her nose looked 'huge' and I was all wtf are you talking about shut up you are fine and way finer than I will ever be. You have nothing to complain about. Wait. Do I do this too? s**t I do. Oh god this is so annoying. And then I stopped. biggrin
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Posted: Fri Oct 29, 2010 9:01 pm
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