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 Posted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 12:34 am
i only want to stay in contact with like, 1 or 2 friends after high school. they're my high school friends. most of them i don't even want to hangout with outside of school anymore.
i don't have very many close friends to begin with, like maybe 3 or 4 close friends and only 2 i'd call BEST friends. i think i like it better that way, but i'm slowly distancing myself from friends i've had since high school began. i feel like i'm only friends with them because they're just...there. and they fit into the group that i'm in.
we're not popular, but we're not lame either. we kind of just blend into the crowd.
idk where i was going with this topic. i always come to the ladies forum to vent and write things that don't make sense.
i want friends that get me. :< that are like me.
i mentioned how i liked this girls eyebrows in the hallway. harmless, rite.
my friend just stared at me like i was crazy. "...her eyebrows?"
"...yes?"
"......alright."
and i don't like being alone. i hate being alone.
yeah. idk anymore ugggh what am i saying it's late.
did anybody else drop their friends when they graduated?
i only have one more year. neutral
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Posted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 1:05 am
Not a lady but I pretty much still hang out with the same people I did while I was in my last school.
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Posted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 7:39 am
Yeah after high school I def lost contact with a few friends but for the most part I still have the same ones.
But just think you'll also make friends in university too~
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Posted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 9:42 am
The only people I still really have contact with from high school are the people I would hang out with every weekend. And even then, there are a few that I only see/talk to occasionally. Up through my senior year, there were probably 7-8 people I hung out with all the time, and I now only regularly talk to three of them (and two of them I've been friends with since junior high).
It's not to say that I don't like any of the people I don't hang out with as much, but it's really easy to lose contact with people from high school. But if you're really close to someone, it'll be a little easier to keep them close, even if they go far away.
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Posted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 10:14 am
I got made fun of for liking another girls eyebrows too it's okay. ;-;
I noticed throughout high school, that if they were of no use to me or were not in any of my classes I would drop people like *snap* that. I wouldn't ignore them or be mean but I wouldn't really go out of my way to talk to them. Then I dumped like, three bitches who were the ringleaders of the group I used to hang out with so I really had none of those friends either. I got to the point of eating my lunches in my car, or going home for lunch. I feel like now all my friends who left to college are the ones I'd want to be with and the ones who stayed are the ones I don't want to see anymore. The only real friend who I have consistently stayed in contact with is Priscilla.
Most of the time I'm scared to hang out with people because I feel like they'd get bored with hanging out with me.
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Posted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 6:44 pm
yeah, new friends i'm always like, ARE YOU SURE YOU DON'T HAVE TO HANG OUT WITH ME IF YOU DONT WANT TO LOLOL
i remember a couple years ago, i wouldn't feel so insecure but then i treated a friend badly and it made me realize how two-faced people can be...mainly me.
i actually have quite a few friends i don't have classes with, but they're not really good friends, so idk how i'd feel about them if i knew them better. :<
but honestly i feel like it's better to have a few best friends than 50 billion just 'alright' friends.
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Posted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 7:19 pm
I had a group of friends in high school -- two of them turned out to be totally butthurt that I was spending more time with my boyfriend than them (I had JUST started dating him too, and by 'more time' I would see him only once a week, lol).
They became totally 'it's either us or him', and yeah. Dumped 'em.
The other totally had my back and was like 'wtf is wrong with you two?', I still talk to her. She's awesome. <3
The other two friends I have from high school are John (Danico), and my other guy friend who's like bff's with my boyfriend now ('cause they're super alike).
I don't talk to anyone else from high school, like, at all.
Unless they comment s**t on facebook, then I think 'lol you're only commenting s**t 'cause you realized I got half decent looking after high school ended'. XD;
Other than that, no close high school friends.
My close friends are older than me, and actually get me.
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Posted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 7:59 pm
It's inevitable that people change.
However you can have a friend who you hadn't seen in MONTHS but when you see each other again it is as if nothing happened and you just automatically hang out. smile I love it when that happens.
But yeah one of my best friends-- all she does now is hang out with her boyfriend it really sucks. I must of tried to include her in ~20 things over the summer and every time she had some excuse. ;_; I don't think I am getting her a Christmas present this year.
And I can't say I have 'dropped' any friends myself perhaps because I like staying on good terms, but there are some I definitely choose not to hang out with depending on the occasion. Or because they grew lame in my eyes. ;P
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Posted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 10:29 pm
Priskills Or because they grew lame in my eyes. ;P yesssss when they start to annoy you just by being there, it's time to move on or something. at least in my case. :< but i'm a doormat and don't like confrontation.
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Posted: Sat Oct 23, 2010 12:38 am
Dude, I dropped like all my friends from high school once I got to college. I kept maybe 5 out of 50 (like everyone from my HS goes to ASU). It's not a big deal. It's just growing up. You can stop hanging around all the people you only semi-liked and focus on maintain really good friendships with the people you truly love.
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Posted: Sat Oct 23, 2010 2:38 am
People come and go, and they'll step out of your life. However, to give you some hope about holding onto some: I still keep in touch with my best friends growing up, Carson (1st grade) and Rosie (3rd grade). Rosie graduated from Reed (where Klempky goes) with a physics degree and works at a nuclear reaction. Carson is working for an office in Washington D.C. and going back to Smith after that. XD That's two people.
I have a few friends from high school, few friends in OLY... y'know, I have a handful of real friends anymore in real life and online that I've held onto over the years, and sometimes I get really lonely -- I am grateful to have them at all though.
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Posted: Sat Oct 23, 2010 11:41 pm
i don't mind hanging out with kids from my school DURING school because i am kind of forced, but otherwise, i have no idea who they are, and probably wouldn't respond if they saw me on the street.
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Posted: Mon Oct 25, 2010 11:25 pm
I talk to friends from high school sometimes but for the most part I have no one and i am fine with that. I am antisocial and the only person I can stand to talk to on a bad day is Anjel so. p;
A lot of guys I talked to would say derogatory things to/about me and two guys were looking at me and talking and I made them tell me what they were talking about, and it was if thy would have sex with me. |: Every guy I just want to be friends with assumes I have the hots for them. Then they don't leave me alone grrr.
Lol same for girls too.
Basically I either didn't exist or was looked at for the wrong reasons. I should have stayed in my baggie hoodie all through high school.
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