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Gabrielle_AnimalLuver
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 6:51 pm


So my ex boyfriend is impossible to get away from it seems. He was my supervisor for 3yrs. Only one of which we were actually dating. After he dumped me (in a text) I had a horrible time moving on. Despite my next boyfriend being totally in love with me. I told him I wasn't ready and just wanted to be friends but he didn't listen and kissed me and made me fall for him before I was ready. Anyway, I feel like my emotional status had a lot to do with our failure as a couple. And then I discovered the girl my ex left me for, her sister, is in my program stressed

There is a list of evidence that says the guy cheated on me. Although he's never admitted to it. When he first dumped me he said he "didn't want to lose me" and all that bullshit. I though it was just another of his lies. Well as it turns out, his girlfriend HATES biking. So he has no one to go biking with.

Consequently, being single and not having any athletic friends. I also have no one to bike with lol. So when he asked me to go biking with him. Just the two of us since all our coworkers seem busy. I really didn't know what to say.

This guy ruined my life. I was severely depressed for so long after him. And no there are no feelings there. Besides residue of anger, hurt, rejection. But I have no desire to ever get back with him. And if we'd never dated we would probably be really good friends. We have a lot in common. We usually have fun when we work together. But I still have this bitter feeling that he shouldn't get to have me AND his girlfriend. Why should mr. "I just wana be alone for a while" get to have his cake and eat it too. sweatdrop And at the same time I miss hanging out with him, and I dunno! It's like I have a lil forgiving angel and a bitter devil on my shoulders and I don't know what to feel anymore.

I hate that I'm single and this a** spent 3 whole months being "single" since me. crying Maybe if I had a boyfriend we could actually get along without me feeling so bitter.
PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 7:07 pm


Well, I'll agree with the sentiment that he shouldn't get to have his cake and eat it too. He made his choice when he dumped you via text( mad ). I think you'll only be opening yourself up to the possibility of more pain if you try to be his friend.

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 7:14 pm


Stay far, faaaar away.

Honestly he sounds like an a*****e- he dumped you in a TEXT for pete's sake. All being friends with him will do will encourage him and muddle you up. Tell him to sod off.
PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 7:41 pm


LOL

Gabrielle_AnimalLuver
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 7:53 pm


No cake for that jerk!
NEVER get back with a guy who dumps you in a TEXT. ):<
I agree with everyone else.
Oh, and Gabrielle, can I tie him up, throw him in mud, then repeatedly run him over with a bulldozer? (:
PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 8:16 pm


he needs a sign that says beware of a*****e. stay away, you have cowboy to do athletic stuff with, you dont need an ex that didnt treat you right

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 11:03 pm


Vegeta_Lover239
Oh, and Gabrielle, can I tie him up, throw him in mud, then repeatedly run him over with a bulldozer? (:


No, I think we should feed Riddle cabbage and cauliflower, wait a few hours, then lock him in a small room with her. twisted
PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 11:19 pm


I'd ride bikes with you any day~ :P
(I need more bike-friends...)

If you feel that way about him it's probably not going to end well if you try to be friends...
Plus he sounds like more than a bit jerky.
Perhaps he's not irredeemable (as friends only) but if you need more time then take it, he made his choice.
Text-message breakups... urgh.

Horntastic

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Gabrielle_AnimalLuver
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 4:41 am


LMAO. The funny thing is Cowboy hates him. He wasn't fond of him at first but then he's not generally fond of any strange man at his house. Plus he's a lil bit racist sweatdrop and then he got over it within like a month to go bananas when he came over. And after he dumped me, he went like a month without seeing him. And when he finally did he barked at him but then shut up and let him pet him (slut) but the NEXT time he came over, to drop off my pay like 5 months later. Cowboy went nuts, stuck his head through the railing at the top of the stairs and would not stop barking. It was like he'd gotten the memo that we don't like him anymore.
PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 4:45 am


I say, trust Cowboys advice 3nodding

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 7:33 am


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Oh, and Gabrielle, can I tie him up, throw him in mud, then repeatedly run him over with a bulldozer? (:


No, I think we should feed Riddle cabbage and cauliflower, wait a few hours, then lock him in a small room with her. twisted



Oooooo I like dat (:<
And THEN can we tie him up, throw him in mud, and repeatedly run him over with a bulldozer? (:
PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 7:34 am


Gabrielle_AnimalLuver
LMAO. The funny thing is Cowboy hates him. He wasn't fond of him at first but then he's not generally fond of any strange man at his house. Plus he's a lil bit racist sweatdrop and then he got over it within like a month to go bananas when he came over. And after he dumped me, he went like a month without seeing him. And when he finally did he barked at him but then shut up and let him pet him (slut) but the NEXT time he came over, to drop off my pay like 5 months later. Cowboy went nuts, stuck his head through the railing at the top of the stairs and would not stop barking. It was like he'd gotten the memo that we don't like him anymore.

Listen to cowboy, he'll protect you!! 3nodding

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 7:52 am


lol, always listen to your pet when dating. my cat hates everyone but loved my fiance since the first time they met.
PostPosted: Sat Oct 16, 2010 8:06 pm


I agree with everyone else, listen to Cowboy. There's no problem being friendly with him, especially since you work together. But if you still have even a little bit of hurt or resentment left in your heart, then it's just not a good idea to be friends yet. You could end up getting hurt again, even if it's just your mind that does the hurting of you.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 17, 2010 11:36 am


Don't let him screw around with your emotions anymore. My ex pulled the whole let's be friends thing and I told him to F-off, because I knew he just wanted it to keep track of what I was doing.
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