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 Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 5:32 pm
Ok, I'm not releasing my age, but I am saying this: Most of the girls in my grade at this time have relatively small breasts, if any at all.
I'm pretty much used to that...
Anyway, there is one with much bigger breasts then all of the others. She's also really hot. I have a huge crush (maybe you could call it love... ninja ) on this other girl, who is absolutely beautiful but she's not that busty.
I feel totally sexually attracted to both of them, but I'm pulled to the busty one! She's totally a b***h at times, but she's so hot! A bunch of my friends keep telling me that, "I don't know it yet, but I like her".
ME: What in the hell?
Please help me! Advice! Relations! ANYTHING!!
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Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 5:53 pm
Personally, I wouldn't date either until you can figure out what you want. So what if she's hot? If she's a b***h, and/or has no personality, or has no likeable traits, then what's the point in dating her? Of course, that's presuming she likes you back.
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Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 7:20 pm
Nikolita Personally, I wouldn't date either until you can figure out what you want. So what if she's hot? If she's a b***h, and/or has no personality, or has no likeable traits, then what's the point in dating her? Of course, that's presuming she likes you back. It's not really about the dating as much as it is who I should go after. I have a slight hunch that the one that I currently like has the same feelings for me, but I'm just all confused by the situation. I try to look inside-out but my mind doesn't want to do that! gonk
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Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 7:21 pm
Nikolita Personally, I wouldn't date either until you can figure out what you want. So what if she's hot? If she's a b***h, and/or has no personality, or has no likeable traits, then what's the point in dating her? Of course, that's presuming she likes you back. ((Thanks a ton, for the feedback, by the way))
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Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 8:11 pm
Being that the only thing you've mentioned first and foremost was breast size, I think maybe you should cool off and wait. There's a difference between lust and liking. Certainly understandable to think one is attractive, but why consider the bigger chested one at all if she's as bad as you desribed?
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Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 9:00 pm
...you know...it's that type of attitude that makes me think of the phrase "hit and run".
She's got a nice rack and a nice body. So what? Man, do you know how many girls you're going to see with nice racks? Or a nice pair of legs? And it's only natural that you want them. I mean, let's get real...they're sexy.
But if all you're after is a piece of a**...in this case breast, then you might as well get a start on collecting the best of playboy now. A nice pair of pair of breast are not worth being bitched at. Her boobs aren't liscenses to be a b***h to you or anyone else.
Okay, now lets talk about you. If you're having difficulties deciding whether to go for the hussy with the floatation devices on her chest or the girl you actually like with a smaller rack...you're going to have some major issues. Now, if you're not going to listen to the guild's advice...listen to the movies. Come on, it's a classic situation. Guy is in love with one girl who he feels likes her but it distracted by the beautiful blonde/brunette with her own customized air bags. Guy decides that he'd rather pursue a meaningless relationship with the girl number 2 and ends up with his heart broken and an empty wallet. It happens in almost every movie but do guys learn from this? NO!!!
Take a breath, one last peek at the hussy's chest because you know you want to....and stop chasing both of them. It's not worth the stress...believe me. If something happens between one of the girls and you then, hey... Congrats. Personally, I'm rooting for the girl you actually have feelings for. Why be just another face in that other's girl's life when there's a chance you might get something out of the other?
And from being a bystander...the hussy isn't going to see you over her chest. If she's one of few around her that have a bigger chest, it's more than likely she's too busy finding the right bra than to notice she's being stalked by ANOTHER guy. Give your labido a rest.
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Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 9:49 pm
lunashock Being that the only thing you've mentioned first and foremost was breast size, I think maybe you should cool off and wait. There's a difference between lust and liking. Certainly understandable to think one is attractive, but why consider the bigger chested one at all if she's as bad as you desribed? I understand, and yes, (in case you were wondering, and you couldn't already tell smile I'm a perv'. And yeah, I'm gonna consider your advise. Thanks a ton!! 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 12:36 pm
If you don't get along mentally then there is no point in trying to have a relationship. She isn't going to enjoy being stared at rather then talked to and if you can't get along then it's unlikely that she would reciprocate your feelings or even give you a chance.
If you are in school then you have to know that the bodies of the other girls are still growing. Just because she matured a little faster then the rest doesn't mean her mind has or that she is ready to use the body that she has.
Honestly I know that most of this is hormone driven but (in my opinion) you have got to try to stop it. Sure you are attracted to her, but that doesn't mean anything. I'm attracted to tons of guys, that doesn't mean I stop loving my husband. If you are having these kind of doubts then you probably aren't ready to date. Take a couple more years and have fun with your friends and do well on your school work.
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Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 7:52 pm
w00t5000 Nikolita Personally, I wouldn't date either until you can figure out what you want. So what if she's hot? If she's a b***h, and/or has no personality, or has no likeable traits, then what's the point in dating her? Of course, that's presuming she likes you back. It's not really about the dating as much as it is who I should go after. I have a slight hunch that the one that I currently like has the same feelings for me, but I'm just all confused by the situation. I try to look inside-out but my mind doesn't want to do that! gonk Sorry for my short reply the first time, I was on a semi-crippled computer and didn't have the patience for a long post. What I meant was, if you're undecided, or if your feelings are largely hormone-based (which they seem to be, regarding the girl with the big chest), then maybe it's better to not date right now. Because if you decide to go out with the girl who has big breasts, what's going to be there if you get past her looks, and find out she has a nasty personality, or no sense of humor, or other things you don't like about her? I'd also imagine she'd be pretty hurt if she ever found out the primary reason for why you wanted to go out with her was the size of her chest. I have a friend who has a large chest, especially for her height, and she told me how hard it was for her to find a guy to date, who didn't want to date her just because of her breasts. Apparently it was really hard, and she gave up on dating entirely for awhile, since the guys who were interested in her were so dumb and immature. So imagine if this girl you like has had the same problem, with having guys always want to date her because of her chest, not who she is. Imagine how hurt she might be if she finds out you're just like every other guy, and not someone different. As Chalda said, if you're having these doubts about yourself and/or who to date, it shows you're sort of insecure, and there's nothing wrong with waiting a couple of years before dating someone. Dating is more fun anyways once you're more mature and prepared for it anyways. smile
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Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 8:31 pm
Fatal_Rei ...you know...it's that type of attitude that makes me think of the phrase "hit and run". She's got a nice rack and a nice body. So what? Man, do you know how many girls you're going to see with nice racks? Or a nice pair of legs? And it's only natural that you want them. I mean, let's get real...they're sexy. But if all you're after is a piece of a**...in this case breast, then you might as well get a start on collecting the best of playboy now. A nice pair of pair of breast are not worth being bitched at. Her boobs aren't liscenses to be a b***h to you or anyone else. Okay, now lets talk about you. If you're having difficulties deciding whether to go for the hussy with the floatation devices on her chest or the girl you actually like with a smaller rack...you're going to have some major issues. Now, if you're not going to listen to the guild's advice...listen to the movies. Come on, it's a classic situation. Guy is in love with one girl who he feels likes her but it distracted by the beautiful blonde/brunette with her own customized air bags. Guy decides that he'd rather pursue a meaningless relationship with the girl number 2 and ends up with his heart broken and an empty wallet. It happens in almost every movie but do guys learn from this? NO!!! Take a breath, one last peek at the hussy's chest because you know you want to....and stop chasing both of them. It's not worth the stress...believe me. If something happens between one of the girls and you then, hey... Congrats. Personally, I'm rooting for the girl you actually have feelings for. Why be just another face in that other's girl's life when there's a chance you might get something out of the other? And from being a bystander...the hussy isn't going to see you over her chest. If she's one of few around her that have a bigger chest, it's more than likely she's too busy finding the right bra than to notice she's being stalked by ANOTHER guy. Give your labido a rest. I'm just in need of help. My body wants one thing whereas my mind wants another. (Guild Captain edit: The rest of this post has been edited out due to its inappropriateness.)
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