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Posted: Sun Oct 03, 2010 3:13 am
Since highschool I've had this bestest friend ever, N.
When I started dating my current bf 3 years ago, she was happy for me, but got quite angry that we got into a relationship because I had less time for my friends left, including here.
For the past 2,5 years, I tried to combine boyfriend & friends as good as possible. We kept in contact with MSN Messenger and email. None of my others friends complained, and after she got used to my bf (Whom we call C), N also complained less.
Now March this year, she found her bf. We were all incredibly happy for her. Not only because it's the first real love of her life, but because we all thought this guy was actually really nice and a good boy for her.
Now, 6 months later, I am horribly pissed and angry at her. They went to Disneyland in France when they were only a month together, and to New York for a week this summer - now that's pretty enthusiastic. O.O I never see her online again, nor do I in real life. I haven't spoke to her since my birthday, which was in May. And yesterday, during our yearly dinner with 8 girls, we found out they now even share a tattoo. I broke out in a hysterical laughter yesterday and got her quite pissed. xD
I just can't stand the fact that no one every sees her or can have a little chat with her. She's always at her work or at her bf, whom I start to dislike more and more. I always loved to share any funny videos I found at Youtube with here, but I can't do that anymore. We used to go the movies, have crazy fotoshoots or just go shopping almost every weekend whenever I had the time, but it's been ages since we saw eachother. And the biggest issue that's bothering me, is that SHE was the one who got all "We don't see Danielle anymore because of C and BAAWWLLLL" and what is SHE doing now? EH? EH?
*throws with plates*
tl;dr : Friend always complained she didn't spoke to me a lot anymore after I got a bf, now she has a bf herself and nobody ever speaks HER again. I say hypocrisy.
Sorry for this huge rant, and sorry for my grammar & spelling mistakes, but I just needed to share it with someone. gonk
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Posted: Sun Oct 03, 2010 10:05 am
No need to apologies. I'd say it's a natural thing. People tend to get attached in unhealthy ways. Some people get obsessed and hooked and don't even realize it. You should try confronting her about it and see what happens. Not in a bad way of course, but try to reason with her and tell her you miss her and see where it goes. smile she should sit and listen to you, specially if you miss her, maybe it will pull her to her senses
Also, a lot of people go through those phases where they will spend a ton of time with their bf, than after they are kind of sick of each other they will go back to where it was. That's kinda why it's unhealthy eek as me popop used to say, you should take all things into moderation!
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Posted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 11:25 am
This is exactly what my bff did to me about two years ago. I text her every now and then and maybe see her once every six months or so.. but, she's completely obsessed with her bf. I actually think they are getting married sometime next year.
And the shitty part? I introduced them to each other.. and lost two of my bestfriends to each other.
Just talk to her... if she gets mad about it, it'll hurt but, if she picks a man over her friends, that's her life. She's the one that will have to deal with it if he breaks her heart. She's the one that's going to wish she didn't ignore her friends. It happens..
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