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sweatdrop I would help but i havent myself not even to my friends...im just afraid of what everyone would think...plus to make matters worse one of my friends is very homophobic...and i dont want her to feel akward around me cry

if they are truely friends, they really shouldn't feel akward :<

i just came out to them.. my family loved me and i knew that even after i told them they would still love me. sorry if this dosnt help but thats what i did. i have open minded perants *smiles* my mom cracks jokes about it some times.

I just sort of told my dad one night, he told me it was a stage and never brought it up again. I still haven't told my mom I'm bi, which is odd, because she'd probably believe me and not have a big problem with it. I guess I kind of like having her not know.

As to friends, well, when they found out (by reading an old blog entry), none of them were surprised (some had already guessed). You could lead into it gently, like when I told everyone that my dream was to one day make out with another girl. Well, that's gentle for me.

But you should definitely tell someone you trust, cause it really helps to take the weight off your shoulders. And if you start with someone other thatn your parents, telling them could become a lot less scary.