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 Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2010 11:02 am
I'm not a huge socialite, but I have good friends, although I find to be friends with me you need to be tolerant, as in I'm quite bigmouthed so you sort of have to let thoughtless comments go over your head and I can be quite rude or intolerant. That's the thing about me, to be friends with me you have to be tolerant, but I'm very intolerant, I'm quite bitchy, I amn't the annoying, overly chatty, high pitched type, I have great fun with my friends but a lot of things annoy me, especially when I'm in a sincere mood and people are acting excessively silly, so you can see just how tolerant my friends are. And lately I've just found with being tired from school, and being in school a lot, and without any major lovelife stories I've found myself not having it in me to be hyped up and enthusiastic.
You're probably thinking you wouldn't stay that tolerant for long and I know I should adjust my attitude, but some things just annoy me, SO much.
So I ask you, what helps you calm down when things/people are REALLY annoying you?
What do you think makes a really good friend?
Any other suggestions?
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2010 1:00 pm
2muchtolerant4onethread.
No but really.
You say to be friends with you, one must be 'tolerant' -- I would suggest you return the favor in that case?
Simple as that.
If you find it hard to do so, then I suggest you stop letting outside sources bother you so much; the only things that should annoy you genuinely are your reactions to other people/things.
Because if something is annoying you that bad, then get down to the bottom of it and fix it; maybe by doing that, you won't get as annoyed.
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2010 2:21 pm
Sounds like you just need to consider things outside of yourself more often.
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2010 7:14 pm
You sounds exactly like me up until I was 16. I was really serious all the time, and any kind of "dumb" things my friends would do would annoy me so much. Honestly, you just have to grow up and start thinking about other peoples' feelings and realize that not everything they do is directed at you.
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Posted: Mon Sep 20, 2010 4:21 am
So basically they have to be tolerant of your behavior at all times, but you're allowed to rage at everything they do and they just have to put up with it?
Seems unfair.
Like Tsuki said, place your standards on yourself. Live to the same standards you expect others to live to.
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Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2010 9:01 am
What everyone else said, and until you can do that, just stay away from your friends for a while if all they're doing is pissing you off. It's not fair to them.
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Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2010 8:31 pm
Do what Jeremiah Johnson did. Sit in your cabin with the dead bodies of your makeshift family, slowly going mad, then snap back to reality and kill every Crow warrior sent to kill you.
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