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Sometimes it really sucks not having any friends to talk to.+Like right now with this thing my parents are going through. I have so much bottled up inside right now that i just want to scream at someone. Mostly, I want to scream at dad.

Its the same old story going round and round but now the shoe's on the other foot so that dad is the one going out and seeing another woman. he says shes just a friend, but if that's so then why is he staying the night there?

It's heartwrenching. Poor mom is on so many mood suppressors and has been abused emotionally by him so bad lately that she can't even cry about it.

I know...Why am I feeling sorry for her after all she put dad through? Well, two wrongs don't make a right. Him hurting her isn't going to make up for how she hurt him.
If he doesn't want to be with her anymore, he should just go through with the divorce, not this bullshit he's pulling now. And that's exactly what it is.
BULLSHIT.

Granny kept saying she wanted to just move out and find a place for her and mom to live..right now I'm thinking that's not so bad of an idea. It seems that's what Dad wants anyway. He doesn't want to go home at night...that's what he's said to me. He despises going home.

I can't say everything is his fault, and I can't say everything is her fault. She hasn't helped herself in this situation...
She's become a lazy, couch potatoe. I can't say much, I'm pretty lazy myself.
I don't know what to tell them to do. I feel like I need to help, but at the same time I just need to stay out of it, but my heart hurts for both of them, and granny too.
It's just a big crazy mess is what it is.
A clean break might be the best thing for mom and dad. To just separate completely..not this living together situation they have now.

.........I don't feel any better after having typed this, but I don't feel so much like screaming now at least.

I'm hoping and praying that things between mom and dad will get better, but I doubt it will. I just don't think it will. How do you believe something will get better after it's gotten so bad???