Okay I met this guy on myyearbook middle of July and we started talking through messages, he asked for my number last week which I gave to him 'cause I liked that he didn't ask for it immediately.
Well the convo online was lifeless 65% of the time, it got a alittle bit better texting though, & last night we talked on the phone.
He mainly talked, 'cause I'm a very quiet person on the phone and in general.. it got a bit better though.
On the 2nd night of texting he asked would I still talk to him if he was taken, I said yeah. Because I like him as a friend, however he does have some potential boyfriend qualities if it grows to that point.
So on the phone, he asked would I like to hangout sometime, I said yeah sure. Left it at that. Later he asked if I'd like to go to church with him this Sunday I said yeah sure but I gotta ask my parents.
Well I don't feel very comfortable doing that, least not yet and I doubt my parents will say yes 'cause they don't know of his existence yet, but they might. Yes I gotta meet him sooner or later, I just don't think early morning church is the way to do it.
Part if the reason why I'm nervous about meeting him is I have yet to meet anyone I've met online in person before.
Main thing, how do I tell him I don't want to go to church Sunday but would still like to hang out at a later date and somewhere where the setting is neutral?
And if this matters he's 18 and lives like an hour away, I'll be 18 in Feb.
Well the convo online was lifeless 65% of the time, it got a alittle bit better texting though, & last night we talked on the phone.
He mainly talked, 'cause I'm a very quiet person on the phone and in general.. it got a bit better though.
On the 2nd night of texting he asked would I still talk to him if he was taken, I said yeah. Because I like him as a friend, however he does have some potential boyfriend qualities if it grows to that point.
So on the phone, he asked would I like to hangout sometime, I said yeah sure. Left it at that. Later he asked if I'd like to go to church with him this Sunday I said yeah sure but I gotta ask my parents.
Well I don't feel very comfortable doing that, least not yet and I doubt my parents will say yes 'cause they don't know of his existence yet, but they might. Yes I gotta meet him sooner or later, I just don't think early morning church is the way to do it.
Part if the reason why I'm nervous about meeting him is I have yet to meet anyone I've met online in person before.
Main thing, how do I tell him I don't want to go to church Sunday but would still like to hang out at a later date and somewhere where the setting is neutral?
And if this matters he's 18 and lives like an hour away, I'll be 18 in Feb.
