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 Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 5:12 pm
My grandpa died last night. I'm back in my home, and the funeral is on Tuesday. My mom's staying at his house and going through his things until after the funeral, and she's having the worst time with this. Her and her dad were very close and she was up almost 3x a month to visit him (it's about a 2 hour drive) during the course of his visits to the hospital and nursing home.
My aunt is the world's biggest c**t. She has some rod stuck up her a**, she didn't go to see him AT ALL over the last 3-4 days, when he was on his final death bed. She hasn't talked to him in 30 years. She said something super rude to my mom about him, something like
"He's finally dead, took him long enough" and my mom just ******** you b***h" and hung up. Mind you that saying 'screw' in a non-tooled sense gets our mouths washed with soap, so this is huge. I'm hoping my f-ckernutaunt doesn't expect us at her funeral. How impersonal can you be? My DAD even had a kind word to say to my mom and I'm sure he would have hugged her if they'd been talking face to face. Ugh.
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 5:20 pm
wow,thats horrible,Im really sorry for your loss,and I hope your aunt doesnt bother anyone anymore about it,thats so mean and rude....
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 6:05 pm
thats disgusting that someone would say that.
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 6:08 pm
.....My dad didn't shed a tear when his mother died.....
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 6:27 pm
KagomeHigurashiCat234 .....My dad didn't shed a tear when his mother died..... just because someone doesnt cry doenst mean they arent sad. it was weeks after my mother died that i finally cried. sorry but i always get a bit deffensive when people acuse someone of not caring or something just because they dont cry at a funeral
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 7:03 pm
KagomeHigurashiCat234 .....My dad didn't shed a tear when his mother died..... People have different systems of grief. It may have been initial shock. It always may have been the 'anchor effect' as I've termed it. He's trying to be strong so people can 'anchor' on him and help relieve their grief that way. He may have not cried on the outside or openly. He may have been blubbering like a baby on the inside or crying while you slept. You can never tell with people. Me? I never cry the first day someone has passed. Always the second day around one o'clock is when the big water works comes. After that it's sniffles here and there.
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 8:23 pm
That's just rude. Even if she felt that way, she shouldn't say such things to people who are grieving. Your aunt is very disrespectful.
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 8:07 pm
That is disgusting. My mother and her dad don't get on. He's always been an a** to her. She says she hates him and can't wait for him to die, but when he does I'l bet you any money she'll be a wreck.
It's disgusting of your aunt to say that, and to say it to someone who is grieving! You never say that to someone when they're upset over a death! Sorry for your loss though..
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