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 Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 8:41 pm
Okay Well Were To Start
Well To Start Off My Best Guy Friend Of 8 Years
Have Been Thought Alot I Mean I Did The Unthinkable
I Fell For My Best Friend We Dated In But We Broke It Off In March
Then Out Of No Where He wanted nothing to do with me
he completely shut me out like if i did something wrong
& i didn't den we didn't talk for 5 months me & his brother got close but just friends dats all den after 5 month den on a random day witch was couple weeks ago he texted me
out of nowhere & i don't wanna be rude so i act like everything fine
then he tells me he doesn't know why we stopped talking
& apologizes and says he misses me i tell him its fine
but try to keep the answers short i mean if he wants to talk to me
he'll keep the conversation going
then strightout of nowhere as me my whole life like if i had a bf i told him no & he asked y if i was a cute girl then after i let him go
it got to me cuz i did miss him alot i mean hes the closest thing to love ive ever had
den i tell my best friend everything den awhile later i go to his house because his bro invited me
he completely ignores me so i get mad i thought things were going to be fine with us
so i leave den he texted me saying y i came over to begin with
we end up fighting & things were said i call my friend crying she said he's not worth it den a couple weeks later my so called best friends starts hanging out with him alot behind my bck
i confront edher she said nothings going on
then i find out she was trying to get with him the whole time
& lied to me 4 about a month i felt so naive i heard it stright from her it hurt me soo bad
cuz she damm well knew how i felt about him & she tried making her self look like the victim i told her to leave & she said she lost her best friend dat day(me)
den hours later texted me saying i miss you i didnt reply den i find out
right after our fight she went to his house -_______-
den the next day another text at 1 am saying she was gonna kill heer self & thankin mr for always being der and that she loves me
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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 9:06 pm
Usure naide anata yo
wazuka na toiki wo kikasete hoshii
I think that you all need to get together and talk this out. I mean, ask him why he was ignoring you. And, ask her why she's trying to commit suicide. I believe suicide is stupid. If she loves you so much, why put you through that? Chiisana kodou de naku
anata yo koko made oide
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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 9:16 pm
Well she think wat she did was alright
lyin to me & tryin to get with him behind my bck
while she was tellin me he wasn't worth it so
for her to even say im over reactin & im messin up out friendship over a guy is bull because she damm well knew he was dat one guy & i would nvr do that to her she played me well
& she's in the hospital right now cuz i heard she over dosed
but i just think shes seeking attention
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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 9:28 pm
Wow one heck of a rant um...i'm not sure about the friend but you might want to visit her in the hospital, the boy So not worth it, his brother tho......nvm hes just a friend to you but the point is if that kind of thing happens just confront them.
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 7:57 am
Well As Is Brother He's Chill
But No Just A Friend Even Tho i would never snoop
so low disrespect him & get with his brother that just aint me & if only he knew that his brother & his best friend liked me at one point
but i didnt do anything because i have more respect for him den to snoop that low
unlike him that hes having a thing with my ex best friend & the thing about her
is that sooner or later shes gonna mess up with him cuz
here another thing she had a thing with his brother! & i heard while she was with my ex guy she was looking at his brother
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 8:18 am
Drama =)
I agree though, you need to corner this guy and figure out what's going on. And honestly if I were you I would fuss at this girl. She can't get out of being blamed just because she overdosed...
I dunno, they both sound pretty confused right now but your friend didn't act very friendly...
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 8:18 am
Wow that girl has a thing for boys doesn't she?i was joking about the brother thing he's just a friend and should probably stay that way
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 12:14 pm
[~+~] Ok, from what i can understand...
Maybe your friend was trying to reach out to you in some bizarre way for attention? You never know.
Personally, i would go and talk to her, and ask her why she did what she did, and what the hell is going on.
Then go and talk to him, ask him what he's playing at and make him choose (a better time would probably be once your friend is out of the hospital) between you and her.
There's probably more than meets the eye on this one. Just make sure everything generally with your friend is ok (as in home life etc), even if she is only seeking attention, over-dosing is a pretty drastic measure - i'd say she needs some sort of help, and maybe from a friend is the best way.
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Posted: Wed Aug 18, 2010 9:13 am
well she out now and on her face book she put out of your
problem off to a new start<3 so regardless anything shes gonna get with him even after she supposedly kissed a** to me sayin shes srry
shes just being fake
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Posted: Wed Aug 25, 2010 9:57 am
Now shes going to my friends
hopeing theyll talk to me 4 her
cuz she "misses" me & realizes she messed up
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Posted: Wed Aug 25, 2010 10:47 am
I think you should confront her definatley. Don't be all 'oh, I miss you, we used to be bffs'....you probably have to make it pretty serious. She does sound like she's just doing things for attention, but there may be an underlying reason for this. I think you should just stay away from the boy though. He's definatley not worth it. If he ever comes around, you'll have contact through his brother (who it's a good idea probably to stay just friends with rather than complicating things!). I think just deal with your friend.
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